Long story short, been seeing a girl for four weeks. There's another thread about the same girl somewhere from me. Everything was great in the beginning. Then she says she wants space. I send her to the moon. She keeps calling. I'm like huh? She disappears for like four days last week, I say "Fuvk you too, and don't call". She calls me four days later, and bombards me with calls and texts. I feel like Berlin in WWII. So finally the next day I take one of her calls (past Monday). She says "Why haven't you answered my calls?" I'm like huh? You disappeared for four days, and then you asking me why? So she bombards me on MOnday, Tues, Wed, and I take a call here and there but ignore her texts. Then, she disappears again this Thursday, haven't heard from her since (it's now Saturday). I am too old for this shivt. I think it's another guy. Or she is bipolar. Either way, I'm done. I called her once last night, she didn't answer. I have now deleted her number. This was a girl who was texting and calling non-stop for four weeks.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I am seriously giving up on finding a sane woman for a while
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Haha I like your world war 2 reference.. you're a funny guy, you'll do fine.
Sometimes going from that big drama to absolutely nothing can suck you back in. I think you know you're going to get over this chick even though you occasionally text her.
Just take some time for you, you're right, you're too old for this sh1t.
TIME TO YOURSELF, THEN NEXT!
Sometimes going from that big drama to absolutely nothing can suck you back in. I think you know you're going to get over this chick even though you occasionally text her.
Just take some time for you, you're right, you're too old for this sh1t.
TIME TO YOURSELF, THEN NEXT!
The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
Just another Whack-a-Mole.
Don't reply to her bombarding blitzkriegs anymore ......... Just eject. Is she really worth the trouble she's causing?
Retreat.
Don't reply to her bombarding blitzkriegs anymore ......... Just eject. Is she really worth the trouble she's causing?
Retreat.
DonGorgon
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women are not held to the same standards of santity that men are because thier minds work differently and they get prferential treatment due to their scarcity and higher value!
stop expecting logic or sanity as you kno it from a woman.
stop expecting logic or sanity as you kno it from a woman.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DonGorgon
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you need to be Fing other women..Falcon25 said:Just like I thought, today, she calls me. Doesn't leave a message. First contact since Thursday. I didn't answer. Of course she calls today, the weekend is over.