Long story short, been seeing a girl for four weeks. There's another thread about the same girl somewhere from me. Everything was great in the beginning. Then she says she wants space. I send her to the moon. She keeps calling. I'm like huh? She disappears for like four days last week, I say "Fuvk you too, and don't call". She calls me four days later, and bombards me with calls and texts. I feel like Berlin in WWII. So finally the next day I take one of her calls (past Monday). She says "Why haven't you answered my calls?" I'm like huh? You disappeared for four days, and then you asking me why? So she bombards me on MOnday, Tues, Wed, and I take a call here and there but ignore her texts. Then, she disappears again this Thursday, haven't heard from her since (it's now Saturday). I am too old for this shivt. I think it's another guy. Or she is bipolar. Either way, I'm done. I called her once last night, she didn't answer. I have now deleted her number. This was a girl who was texting and calling non-stop for four weeks.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I am seriously giving up on finding a sane woman for a while
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Haha I like your world war 2 reference.. you're a funny guy, you'll do fine.
Sometimes going from that big drama to absolutely nothing can suck you back in. I think you know you're going to get over this chick even though you occasionally text her.
Just take some time for you, you're right, you're too old for this sh1t.
TIME TO YOURSELF, THEN NEXT!
Sometimes going from that big drama to absolutely nothing can suck you back in. I think you know you're going to get over this chick even though you occasionally text her.
Just take some time for you, you're right, you're too old for this sh1t.
TIME TO YOURSELF, THEN NEXT!
The Mad Ghost
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Just another Whack-a-Mole.
Don't reply to her bombarding blitzkriegs anymore ......... Just eject. Is she really worth the trouble she's causing?
Retreat.
Don't reply to her bombarding blitzkriegs anymore ......... Just eject. Is she really worth the trouble she's causing?
Retreat.
DonGorgon
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women are not held to the same standards of santity that men are because thier minds work differently and they get prferential treatment due to their scarcity and higher value!
stop expecting logic or sanity as you kno it from a woman.
stop expecting logic or sanity as you kno it from a woman.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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you need to be Fing other women..Falcon25 said:Just like I thought, today, she calls me. Doesn't leave a message. First contact since Thursday. I didn't answer. Of course she calls today, the weekend is over.