Long story short, been seeing a girl for four weeks. There's another thread about the same girl somewhere from me. Everything was great in the beginning. Then she says she wants space. I send her to the moon. She keeps calling. I'm like huh? She disappears for like four days last week, I say "Fuvk you too, and don't call". She calls me four days later, and bombards me with calls and texts. I feel like Berlin in WWII. So finally the next day I take one of her calls (past Monday). She says "Why haven't you answered my calls?" I'm like huh? You disappeared for four days, and then you asking me why? So she bombards me on MOnday, Tues, Wed, and I take a call here and there but ignore her texts. Then, she disappears again this Thursday, haven't heard from her since (it's now Saturday). I am too old for this shivt. I think it's another guy. Or she is bipolar. Either way, I'm done. I called her once last night, she didn't answer. I have now deleted her number. This was a girl who was texting and calling non-stop for four weeks.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I am seriously giving up on finding a sane woman for a while
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Haha I like your world war 2 reference.. you're a funny guy, you'll do fine.
Sometimes going from that big drama to absolutely nothing can suck you back in. I think you know you're going to get over this chick even though you occasionally text her.
Just take some time for you, you're right, you're too old for this sh1t.
TIME TO YOURSELF, THEN NEXT!
Sometimes going from that big drama to absolutely nothing can suck you back in. I think you know you're going to get over this chick even though you occasionally text her.
Just take some time for you, you're right, you're too old for this sh1t.
TIME TO YOURSELF, THEN NEXT!
The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
Just another Whack-a-Mole.
Don't reply to her bombarding blitzkriegs anymore ......... Just eject. Is she really worth the trouble she's causing?
Retreat.
Don't reply to her bombarding blitzkriegs anymore ......... Just eject. Is she really worth the trouble she's causing?
Retreat.
DonGorgon
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women are not held to the same standards of santity that men are because thier minds work differently and they get prferential treatment due to their scarcity and higher value!
stop expecting logic or sanity as you kno it from a woman.
stop expecting logic or sanity as you kno it from a woman.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonGorgon
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you need to be Fing other women..Falcon25 said:Just like I thought, today, she calls me. Doesn't leave a message. First contact since Thursday. I didn't answer. Of course she calls today, the weekend is over.