I need help alot of my friends say i'm Paranoid and their right i'm a paranoid guy. I get it from my parents who are also paranoid. So now i notice being paranoid stops me from getting with girls,because i take less chances and when i do i have no courage to make a good conversation. So wat do i do?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I am Paranoid and it sucks
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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loser...lmao
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Hey, back off of the guy, how is he a loser? He's just paranoid, and that gets in the way of him approaching girls. He's not a loser, he's just a guy who needs to work on his game. A loser is a guy, who doesn't want to work on his game, but wants to keep complaining.Dayum itz jee said:loser...lmao
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read my threads about approaching - i have quite a few and been told they r inspirational and brutally honest
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Hey whoa check it, I'm giving advice:
Read the inspirational posts in the bible, so you have the motivation first. Without the WANT, you'll never make it.
Then, just go out there and talk to people anyway, paranoia be damned. If you feel paranoid about a girl right before you go up to talk to her, try this mind trick.
Imagine that all of your paranoia is in a little box. Its just a tiny little box, small enough to sit in the palm of your hand. Imagine that the box is on the ground, and then step on it. Squish it. Smush the hell out of it. Then take your foot off and look at all that gunk on the ground. Spit in it. Then kick some dirt on it. Then go over there and talk to that hott chick you had your eyes on, paranoia-free.
It helps to visualize things. Worth a shot anyway, right? Tell us how it goes.
Read the inspirational posts in the bible, so you have the motivation first. Without the WANT, you'll never make it.
Then, just go out there and talk to people anyway, paranoia be damned. If you feel paranoid about a girl right before you go up to talk to her, try this mind trick.
Imagine that all of your paranoia is in a little box. Its just a tiny little box, small enough to sit in the palm of your hand. Imagine that the box is on the ground, and then step on it. Squish it. Smush the hell out of it. Then take your foot off and look at all that gunk on the ground. Spit in it. Then kick some dirt on it. Then go over there and talk to that hott chick you had your eyes on, paranoia-free.
It helps to visualize things. Worth a shot anyway, right? Tell us how it goes.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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