I need help alot of my friends say i'm Paranoid and their right i'm a paranoid guy. I get it from my parents who are also paranoid. So now i notice being paranoid stops me from getting with girls,because i take less chances and when i do i have no courage to make a good conversation. So wat do i do?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I am Paranoid and it sucks
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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loser...lmao
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Hey, back off of the guy, how is he a loser? He's just paranoid, and that gets in the way of him approaching girls. He's not a loser, he's just a guy who needs to work on his game. A loser is a guy, who doesn't want to work on his game, but wants to keep complaining.Dayum itz jee said:loser...lmao
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read my threads about approaching - i have quite a few and been told they r inspirational and brutally honest
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Hey whoa check it, I'm giving advice:
Read the inspirational posts in the bible, so you have the motivation first. Without the WANT, you'll never make it.
Then, just go out there and talk to people anyway, paranoia be damned. If you feel paranoid about a girl right before you go up to talk to her, try this mind trick.
Imagine that all of your paranoia is in a little box. Its just a tiny little box, small enough to sit in the palm of your hand. Imagine that the box is on the ground, and then step on it. Squish it. Smush the hell out of it. Then take your foot off and look at all that gunk on the ground. Spit in it. Then kick some dirt on it. Then go over there and talk to that hott chick you had your eyes on, paranoia-free.
It helps to visualize things. Worth a shot anyway, right? Tell us how it goes.
Read the inspirational posts in the bible, so you have the motivation first. Without the WANT, you'll never make it.
Then, just go out there and talk to people anyway, paranoia be damned. If you feel paranoid about a girl right before you go up to talk to her, try this mind trick.
Imagine that all of your paranoia is in a little box. Its just a tiny little box, small enough to sit in the palm of your hand. Imagine that the box is on the ground, and then step on it. Squish it. Smush the hell out of it. Then take your foot off and look at all that gunk on the ground. Spit in it. Then kick some dirt on it. Then go over there and talk to that hott chick you had your eyes on, paranoia-free.
It helps to visualize things. Worth a shot anyway, right? Tell us how it goes.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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