I need help alot of my friends say i'm Paranoid and their right i'm a paranoid guy. I get it from my parents who are also paranoid. So now i notice being paranoid stops me from getting with girls,because i take less chances and when i do i have no courage to make a good conversation. So wat do i do?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I am Paranoid and it sucks
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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loser...lmao
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Hey, back off of the guy, how is he a loser? He's just paranoid, and that gets in the way of him approaching girls. He's not a loser, he's just a guy who needs to work on his game. A loser is a guy, who doesn't want to work on his game, but wants to keep complaining.Dayum itz jee said:loser...lmao
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read my threads about approaching - i have quite a few and been told they r inspirational and brutally honest
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Hey whoa check it, I'm giving advice:
Read the inspirational posts in the bible, so you have the motivation first. Without the WANT, you'll never make it.
Then, just go out there and talk to people anyway, paranoia be damned. If you feel paranoid about a girl right before you go up to talk to her, try this mind trick.
Imagine that all of your paranoia is in a little box. Its just a tiny little box, small enough to sit in the palm of your hand. Imagine that the box is on the ground, and then step on it. Squish it. Smush the hell out of it. Then take your foot off and look at all that gunk on the ground. Spit in it. Then kick some dirt on it. Then go over there and talk to that hott chick you had your eyes on, paranoia-free.
It helps to visualize things. Worth a shot anyway, right? Tell us how it goes.
Read the inspirational posts in the bible, so you have the motivation first. Without the WANT, you'll never make it.
Then, just go out there and talk to people anyway, paranoia be damned. If you feel paranoid about a girl right before you go up to talk to her, try this mind trick.
Imagine that all of your paranoia is in a little box. Its just a tiny little box, small enough to sit in the palm of your hand. Imagine that the box is on the ground, and then step on it. Squish it. Smush the hell out of it. Then take your foot off and look at all that gunk on the ground. Spit in it. Then kick some dirt on it. Then go over there and talk to that hott chick you had your eyes on, paranoia-free.
It helps to visualize things. Worth a shot anyway, right? Tell us how it goes.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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