"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I am Paranoid and it sucks

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I need help alot of my friends say i'm Paranoid and their right i'm a paranoid guy. I get it from my parents who are also paranoid. So now i notice being paranoid stops me from getting with girls,because i take less chances and when i do i have no courage to make a good conversation. So wat do i do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dayum itz jee said:
loser...lmao
Hey, back off of the guy, how is he a loser? He's just paranoid, and that gets in the way of him approaching girls. He's not a loser, he's just a guy who needs to work on his game. A loser is a guy, who doesn't want to work on his game, but wants to keep complaining.
 

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read my threads about approaching - i have quite a few and been told they r inspirational and brutally honest
 

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Hey whoa check it, I'm giving advice:

Read the inspirational posts in the bible, so you have the motivation first. Without the WANT, you'll never make it.

Then, just go out there and talk to people anyway, paranoia be damned. If you feel paranoid about a girl right before you go up to talk to her, try this mind trick.

Imagine that all of your paranoia is in a little box. Its just a tiny little box, small enough to sit in the palm of your hand. Imagine that the box is on the ground, and then step on it. Squish it. Smush the hell out of it. Then take your foot off and look at all that gunk on the ground. Spit in it. Then kick some dirt on it. Then go over there and talk to that hott chick you had your eyes on, paranoia-free.

It helps to visualize things. Worth a shot anyway, right? Tell us how it goes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Listen to music, and focus on the words.

This settles down all the **** in your head and focuses you. Then do whatever you need to.

I listen to rap for this(tupac, eminem, snoopz)
 
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