Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Or have heart issues. One cause is clogged capillaries in the d!ck but if those are clogged so is your heart. If that's the case you are a ticking time bomb for a heart attack from atherosclerosis
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
whats atherosclerosis ?
calcification of veins.
could coffee clog my veins?
Look it up.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why is it that lazy bums always prefer to blame someone/something else when it's actually them that's the root cause?
Dudes which have been beaten down by life tend to either not turn around and dig themselves deeper; or haven't hit rockbottom yet to bounce out of their stupor. If people do not get ahold of their depression, it just drags them further and further down the rabbit hole.
Dudes need to learn how to endure hardships and then THROUGH it learn how to overcome those hardships.
Not this generation.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Boggles the mind to think that grown men can convince themselves that their delusions is actually a hidden superpower that can be awaken with not fapping.
Too numb to shock me. Take a stroll around any major metro US area... You'll see what the US has turned into.. Sad. Dude's IQ points are going down, ladies are going up. Dudes ain't going to school or trades, ladies are becoming doctors, lawyers, dentists, politicians, CEOs, etc. It's only a matter of time until there is a huge and painful world reset. Prob. come in 2025 when a female President is elected by the liberals. Our only hope would be if the billionaires take her out.. It's possible.
No need to worry abt women's IQ rise, it will reach a stumbling block and won't grow any further, its biologically impossible - the proof is all around us.
Why facepalm? It was scientifically proven
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Because I masturbate and never noticed anything different in how attractive I am to women, the way I carry myself is the same whether I rub one out or not, idk maybe its because I'm a "pretty boy" lol
I dont understand what weather has to do with jerking off to porn
Spell check.
I will report after a month of nofap. People make fun of it but as far as i remember i had increased energy and discipline from longer streaks
Nah, which adult dares make fun of a kid when he says he has increased energy and discipline from donning his favourite batman costumes?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.