"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i am on nofap for a week

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Not if you wanna get it up. If your a male under 40 and don't drink, yet you still have problems getting it up... I'd go see a doctor.. Maybe your testosterone is under 300... get some cheap viagra.
Or have heart issues. One cause is clogged capillaries in the d!ck but if those are clogged so is your heart. If that's the case you are a ticking time bomb for a heart attack from atherosclerosis
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Or have heart issues. One cause is clogged capillaries in the d!ck but if those are clogged so is your heart. If that's the case you are a ticking time bomb for a heart attack from atherosclerosis
whats atherosclerosis ?

i have only troubles breathing and dont feel smells

other than that i drink ton of coffee
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've quit out porn (i.e. escort pics) too at the moment. Then what happened I started noticing women's bums in public, especially when they bent over to pick up something or if their juicy a$$ is like a few inches away from my hand or the front end of my pants accidentally (i.e. I was walking out of a place and a lady's bum was just a few hairs away from my hand on jeans). Then when I get to bed, the memory of these people come into mind and I start fapping. Normally it's reconstructed to imagine, what if I had groped them and started making-out with her and got her number how would that feel?

This has not happened in a few days because I went to bed later and was too conked out to have sex-thoughts. The secret of no-fap is to go to bed as late as possible, like 2-3:00 am where you just hit the bed and fall asleep seconds afterwards. If you have too much energy when you go to bed then the memory could act up and you might remember or imagine something, or reconstruct a fictional and sexual account.
This is more dangerous than porn because it's bad imagination.

It's gotten to a point that I have fictitious conquests. I know who I already fapped to and no longer want her and look out for the next woman to record into the mental video tape. That's before I pulled the plug on all this and went to bed so late that I didn't have the energy to do this anymore. Again, the solution, go to bed very late so you won't fap. It's just excess energy to fall asleep.
 

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It's a bad idea to go to bed late - if you have issues with getting horny just before you go to sleep, take some soft-herb based pill for sleep about an hour before time you should go to sleep - you won't think about sex too much, just about sleeping.
Why is it that lazy bums always prefer to blame someone/something else when it's actually them that's the root cause?

If OP were to wake up from his stupor of laziness and make efforts to socialised, and be considered a great joker (which he is without any effort), he'd have women within that social circle all vying for his time.

1st he needs to get out of his room, then more into the living room then gradually outside his house and then start to get a job.

@sosousage you're been here almost 2 years, inject some bravery into ur character and take that leap.
 

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Why is it that lazy bums always prefer to blame someone/something else when it's actually them that's the root cause?

If OP were to wake up from his stupor of laziness and make efforts to socialised, and be considered a great joker (which he is without any effort), he'd have women within that social circle all vying for his time.

1st he needs to get out of his room, then more into the living room then gradually outside his house and then start to get a job.

@sosousage you're been here almost 2 years, inject some bravery into ur character and take that leap.
Dudes which have been beaten down by life tend to either not turn around and dig themselves deeper; or haven't hit rockbottom yet to bounce out of their stupor. If people do not get ahold of their depression, it just drags them further and further down the rabbit hole.
 

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Dudes which have been beaten down by life tend to either not turn around and dig themselves deeper; or haven't hit rockbottom yet to bounce out of their stupor. If people do not get ahold of their depression, it just drags them further and further down the rabbit hole.
Dudes need to learn how to endure hardships and then THROUGH it learn how to overcome those hardships.

There's no excuse for men not too, males are biologically made to endure and surpass many limitations.

Men fail or reach a mental stumbling block when they start to either listen to women or other supplicating men.
 

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Dudes need to learn how to endure hardships and then THROUGH it learn how to overcome those hardships.

There's no excuse for men not too, males are biologically made to endure and surpass many limitations.

Men fail or reach a mental stumbling block when they start to either listen to women or other supplicating men.
Not this generation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Not this generation.
Boggles the mind to think that grown men can convince themselves that their delusions is actually a hidden superpower that can be awaken with not fapping.

Its like kids thinking that putting on a superman's costume will grant them an ability to fly, and many did, flying off their balconies, some died.
 

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Boggles the mind to think that grown men can convince themselves that their delusions is actually a hidden superpower that can be awaken with not fapping.

Its like kids thinking that putting on a superman's costume will grant them an ability to fly, and many did, flying off their balconies, some died.
Too numb to shock me. Take a stroll around any major metro US area... You'll see what the US has turned into.. Sad. Dude's IQ points are going down, ladies are going up. Dudes ain't going to school or trades, ladies are becoming doctors, lawyers, dentists, politicians, CEOs, etc. It's only a matter of time until there is a huge and painful world reset. Prob. come in 2025 when a female President is elected by the liberals. Our only hope would be if the billionaires take her out.. It's possible.
 

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Too numb to shock me. Take a stroll around any major metro US area... You'll see what the US has turned into.. Sad. Dude's IQ points are going down, ladies are going up. Dudes ain't going to school or trades, ladies are becoming doctors, lawyers, dentists, politicians, CEOs, etc. It's only a matter of time until there is a huge and painful world reset. Prob. come in 2025 when a female President is elected by the liberals. Our only hope would be if the billionaires take her out.. It's possible.
No need to worry abt women's IQ rise, it will reach a stumbling block and won't grow any further, its biologically impossible - the proof is all around us.

The problem of course lies with those men who's IQ's are below average (due to laziness) being unable to command the respect of their female counterparts, since they can't compete with either IQ or EQ then they'll surely need to blame something else.....fapping.

I wonder who was the 1st guy who created this trend in Sosuave?

So that I could revisit his thread and then ask him, how is it now, r ur magical superpowers still making women automatically wet their panties?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why facepalm? It was scientifically proven
Because I masturbate and never noticed anything different in how attractive I am to women, the way I carry myself is the same whether I rub one out or not, idk maybe its because I'm a "pretty boy" lol

You know what else is significantly proven?
Masturbation is healthy.
 
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Because I masturbate and never noticed anything different in how attractive I am to women, the way I carry myself is the same weather I rub one out or not, idk maybe its because I'm a "pretty boy" lol

You know what else is significantly proven?
Masturbation is healthy.
I dont understand what weather has to do with jerking off to porn
 

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I will report after a month of nofap. People make fun of it but as far as i remember i had increased energy and discipline from longer streaks
Nah, which adult dares make fun of a kid when he says he has increased energy and discipline from donning his favourite batman costumes?

We of course allow them their delusions because he's a kid.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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