I almost got laid tonight

[Solomon]

generally a good idea. however one thing i do with girls that i get a feel won’t just come straight to my place is find out the general area where they live. and then i pick a spot near theirs. why? my philosophy is that a girl you haven’t slept yet has bare minimum investment in you so u want to make it as easy as possible to say yes to. picking a spot that makes it easy for her to say yes to (because it’s so close to her), is a easier than having her take an uber 10-20 minutes to somewhere closer to where you live. not only is it frictionless, but removes that potential stigma in her head that “he’s picking this place 20 mins away from me because he intends on inviting back to his place after this”. then on the date, you uber from the spot to ur place. only fvck up i see her was her saying her mom was cool with her bring over a guy (and maybe she is. but a guy 20+ years older than her daughter? idk bout that lol).

I don’t disagree with this. However,in this situation, OP is 40+ sneaking into girls' houses like a teenager. I'm too old for that shyt I don't care how hot a girl is. I'd rather take a girl back to my place or even pay for a hotel. If the girl doesn't want to, oh well. I live in an open carry state, and mothers****ers will blow your head off for any reason

2nd. (for me) I live in the 2nd biggest city in my state, so usually girls don’t mind coming to me since I’m where it’s happening (bars, clubs, 2 big shopping malls etc.). Most girls have no problem making the trip.

 

[Velasco]

However,in this situation, OP is 40+ sneaking into girls' houses like a teenager

yeah can’t say i’ve been in that situation. the girls that i’ve been with that lived w their parents have never suggested going back to theirs. which if ur someone without ur own place (*cough cough* bph lol), it’s massively important.

I’m where it’s happening (bars, clubs, 2 big shopping malls etc.). Most girls have no problem making the trip.

that’s clutch and yeah that removes any stigma since that’s where the action is

 

[HaleyBaron]

lol as others said, sneaking into a young girl's house is stupid. Should have gotten a hotel room or something. You ****ed up. You're 40+. You don't sneak into parents' houses anymore.

 

[Plinco]

This is why logistics are so important. Always set a date that's closer to your place than hers to avoid BS like this.

I literally have a bar within walking distance and there are multiple bars within 3-10 minutes by Uber. This is something OP should have handled or figured out in his 30s. If you live in an area that's not conducive to this then I understand, but still this really could have been avoided.

This was a few towns north of me. We talked about going back to my place, but that was 45 minutes away. She didn't look too sure about being so far away from her place, and that's when she told me that her mom would be cool with me being there.

Which brings me to the next thing that I should mention:

Dunno man, even the idea that her mother left a guy to enter her place in the middle of the night to potentially beat a guy for sleeping with her daughter sounds a bit like crazy dynamic inside that house

not to mention the idea of her mom called the guy to come and beat the OP in the middle of the night, is even crazier

3. Suspect that she maybe knew this could go down like this, sounds like she's done this sort of thing before, and what she wanted was the drama, or potential for it

Yeah her mom is batsh!t, and this girl was too. The mom/daughter drama showed me this. There's quite a bit of history there. I think her mom is permissive, but then flips out when she feels like it, that's what it seems like to me based on what she said about her mom and my brief interaction from her mom.

An interesting story.

Good thing your aura from the muay thai saved your a55 from bigger trouble.

Being calm in a situation like that, and keeping a cool head is what kept me out of trouble. The fact is, even though I was having sex with her, that doesn't make her my girlfriend, and she could have turned against me if the police had showed up to side with her mom. This Mark guy could have grabbed a gun (most people carry guns around here), and he was obviously emotionally invested in her. This was one to walk away from.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This was a few towns north of me. We talked about going back to my place, but that was 45 minutes away. She didn't look too sure about being so far away from her place, and that's when she told me that her mom would be cool with me being there.

Which brings me to the next thing that I should mention:





Yeah her mom is batsh!t, and this girl was too. The mom/daughter drama showed me this. There's quite a bit of history there. I think her mom is permissive, but then flips out when she feels like it, that's what it seems like to me based on what she said about her mom and my brief interaction from her mom.



Being calm in a situation like that, and keeping a cool head is what kept me out of trouble. The fact is, even though I was having sex with her, that doesn't make her my girlfriend, and she could have turned against me if the police had showed up to side with her mom. This Mark guy could have grabbed a gun (most people carry guns around here), and he was obviously emotionally invested in her. This was one to walk away from.

Nice, but you should have just gotten a motel/hotel room if the drive to your place was too far. I've done it many times and most women are more than willing to go that route.

It definitely counts, but being interrupted definitely had to suck...I can't say I've ever had anything like that happen and I've banged women with kids in the house and once even in the same room when I was on vacation with my GF at the time and we were in the same room.

 

[Gamisch]

This is an L

At 42 you should GUIDE her AWAY from these childish situations, straight into your castle. You ought to be "woman ready " ALL THE TIME!

You was thinking with the little guy down there and thus walked right into a messy situation.

Sneaking into a house and yadiya should've been over for at least like 12 to 15 years by now. Almost got your azz beat( also a weakness/ fat L, why are afraid to be confronted by another man? If he want to bring it let's go!!! You dont train? )

So ,great story, fun and all that but still multiple L's. Do better next time sir!

 

[craider]

This was a wild read. I heavily advise against using muay thai training if you're in someone's home without permission from the owner, and they called a guy to get you the f out... Like legit dude imagine she's 16 and lied, you'd be in jail for life!

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This was a wild read. I heavily advise against using muay thai training if you're in someone's home without permission from the owner, and they called a guy to get you the f out... Like legit dude imagine she's 16 and lied, you'd be in jail for life!

Probably not. Most states the age of consent is 16 and if she was in a bar that's over 21 he would have an extremely solid defense that he had every right to believe she was of age. If anything, he would then be able to sue the bar for allowing her to be in there since it then put him in legal jeopardy due to them not doing their jobs properly.