generally a good idea. however one thing i do with girls that i get a feel won’t just come straight to my place is find out the general area where they live. and then i pick a spot near theirs. why? my philosophy is that a girl you haven’t slept yet has bare minimum investment in you so u want to make it as easy as possible to say yes to. picking a spot that makes it easy for her to say yes to (because it’s so close to her), is a easier than having her take an uber 10-20 minutes to somewhere closer to where you live. not only is it frictionless, but removes that potential stigma in her head that “he’s picking this place 20 mins away from me because he intends on inviting back to his place after this”. then on the date, you uber from the spot to ur place. only fvck up i see her was her saying her mom was cool with her bring over a guy (and maybe she is. but a guy 20+ years older than her daughter? idk bout that lol).
I don’t disagree with this. However,in this situation, OP is 40+ sneaking into girls' houses like a teenager. I'm too old for that shyt I don't care how hot a girl is.
I'd rather take a girl back to my place or even pay for a hotel. If the girl doesn't want to, oh well. I live in an open carry state, and mothers****ers will blow your head off for any reason
2nd. (for me) I live in the 2nd biggest city in my state, so usually girls don’t mind coming to me since I’m where it’s happening (bars, clubs, 2 big shopping malls etc.). Most girls have no problem making the trip.
