"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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I’m sick of these females lying

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Below are 3 screenshots of my Hinge (dating app) and this girl sent me a 'like' and tried to open a conversation. She comments on my preference for fit chicks, claiming that tho she is not fit, she eats healthy…

What planet are these females living on. I’ve noticed women will make claims like, “I’m smart”, “I’m down to earth”, “I’m healthy”. Seems they talk a lot but what matters is action. You don’t need to say these things when I can see it in your actions.

In this case she directly contradicts her claim in her profile where she professes her pleasure in dipping french fries in ketchup and mayonnaise… I call her out on her bull**** and shut her down. Don’t be fooled gents. View attachment 5131 View attachment 5132 View attachment 5133 View attachment 5131 View attachment 5132 View attachment 5133
It's deceptive 100% but she tried to impress you

BTW are you Nigerian
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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if she agreed to go on a date with me, and we've talked via text before hand... why play hard to get
because theyre nuts, attention is more important than having a good time with you.

your a simple man, you want to drive to the beach and enjoy life with some 80s smooths jams on.

She wants to sit on the sofa drinking vodka checking she is desired
 

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My reply was funny and I get-off on calling people out on their bull****.
I think you need to look at yourself in this thread. She’s not the problem with anything. It’s you. You’re deeply cringy.
if you want to call that a “lie” then good lord man, you’re in for a tough road with relationships and anything else.. she’s not lying about anything. If she knew her body wasn’t functioning and was in treatment for her health due to it being compromised, but then said she was “healthy”, that would be lying, as she is distorting her objective reality.

A person can be healthy as heck and still indulge in fries with mayo.


Lighten up bro. Life isn't that serious. Have some fun.
+1

Usually I prefer she's direct and obvious which I know is not female nature. But at the very least she needs to act natural and not show resistance. Like... if she agreed to go on a date with me, and we've talked via text before hand... why play hard to get?
Why act entitled like she owes you absolutely anything at all?
 

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I think you need to look at yourself in this thread. She’s not the problem with anything. It’s you. You’re deeply cringy.
if you want to call that a “lie” then good lord man, you’re in for a tough road with relationships and anything else.. she’s not lying about anything. If she knew her body wasn’t functioning and was in treatment for her health due to it being compromised, but then said she was “healthy”, that would be lying, as she is distorting her objective reality.

A person can be healthy as heck and still indulge in fries with mayo.



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Why act entitled like she owes you absolutely anything at all?
It sounds like he has success and his style will prevent him from getting hung up on females.
 

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I think you need to look at yourself in this thread. She’s not the problem with anything. It’s you. You’re deeply cringy.
if you want to call that a “lie” then good lord man, you’re in for a tough road with relationships and anything else.. she’s not lying about anything. If she knew her body wasn’t functioning and was in treatment for her health due to it being compromised, but then said she was “healthy”, that would be lying, as she is distorting her objective reality.

A person can be healthy as heck and still indulge in fries with mayo.



+1


Why act entitled like she owes you absolutely anything at all?
OP is in for a rough way to go with relationships.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You do realize you can focus on ladies who are so into you that everything is straightforward?
Or you can not sound like you are so tight you have a stick up your ass when going on dates. Pretty sure they are gonna be way more into you when you have fun and laugh than try and monitor their every move for some type of behavior to freak out about.
 

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Or you can not sound like you are so tight you have a stick up your ass when going on dates. Pretty sure they are gonna be way more into you when you have fun and laugh than try and monitor their every move for some type of behavior to freak out about.
Right. That sounds like a b1tchy woman. But some guys get away with it as it fits their natural self.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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because theyre nuts, attention is more important than having a good time with you.

your a simple man, you want to drive to the beach and enjoy life with some 80s smooths jams on.

She wants to sit on the sofa drinking vodka checking she is desired
It's a sad unfortunate truth that woman constantly seek attention. I did not realize how bad jt was until recently especially with social media, it's tough to date if you want someone who's not a conceded entitled feminist ***** ‍♂.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think you need to look at yourself in this thread. She’s not the problem with anything. It’s you. You’re deeply cringy.
if you want to call that a “lie” then good lord man, you’re in for a tough road with relationships and anything else.. she’s not lying about anything. If she knew her body wasn’t functioning and was in treatment for her health due to it being compromised, but then said she was “healthy”, that would be lying, as she is distorting her objective reality.

A person can be healthy as heck and still indulge in fries with mayo.



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Why act entitled like she owes you absolutely anything at all?
I don't care what she eats. The point is this point is to shed light on the contradiction. She said she eats healthy, yet her profile literally says "Eating fries with... mayonnaise.. is bomb af", in addition her body weight also says the complete opposite. She's trying to talk her way out of the "beauty standard". 'I eat healthy, therefore you should like me even though I don't look fit'.

No idea what you're getting at with the entitlement comment?
 

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So In a date the female qualifies to YOU not the other way around like most men. You are the job interviewer she's the interviewee.
To be honest I don't ever try to qualify to a woman, however I also do not feel she need to qualify to me per se. There are red flags and peeves I stay away from. I suppose you can say she needs to qualify, but I don't think of it that way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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