"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hypothetical Snapchat Situation

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Let’s say you had a friend who was a girl on Snapchat. She takes video Snaps a lot. One day, you notice in one of her stories that she has a just stunning friend with her, but you don’t know the friend at all. Would it be ok to comment on her story and be like “damn who’s your friend? You wanna introduce me?”

And how would you proceed from there?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Seriously you need to ask for advice on this?
 
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You tryin to bang the friend or the girl? How do you know the girl, is this just someone you met on Snapchat?
 
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SoSuave666 said:
You tryin to bang the friend or the girl? How do you know the girl, is this just someone you met on Snapchat?
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Ok so Girl A is my friend who I know, and I have her on Snapchat.

Girl B I’ve never met before, no social connection except that she’s a friend of a friend. Never met her in person, but I see her on Girl A’s Snapchat stories and she’s very attractive.

Considering I’ve never met Girl B, I’m just not sure exactly how to handle the situation.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If girl A is your friend, like actual friend and you aren’t just some orbiter to her she uses for likes, being it up to her next time you see her in person.

Social circle game is the easiest way to get chicks.
 
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SoSuave666 said:
If girl A is your friend, like actual friend and you aren’t just some orbiter to her she uses for likes, being it up to her next time you see her in person.

Social circle game is the easiest way to get chicks.
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I’m considering focusing more on social circle game and online dating than Cold Approach. Seems really useful.

I know RSD has some stuff, but any good resources for learning good social circle game?
 
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nicksaiz65 said:
I’m considering focusing more on social circle game and online dating than Cold Approach. Seems really useful.
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Why not use all of the tools? The former two are easier, but the latter also gets you what you want.
 
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