"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hypothetical Snapchat Situation

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Let’s say you had a friend who was a girl on Snapchat. She takes video Snaps a lot. One day, you notice in one of her stories that she has a just stunning friend with her, but you don’t know the friend at all. Would it be ok to comment on her story and be like “damn who’s your friend? You wanna introduce me?”

And how would you proceed from there?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Seriously you need to ask for advice on this?
 
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You tryin to bang the friend or the girl? How do you know the girl, is this just someone you met on Snapchat?
 
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SoSuave666 said:
You tryin to bang the friend or the girl? How do you know the girl, is this just someone you met on Snapchat?
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Ok so Girl A is my friend who I know, and I have her on Snapchat.

Girl B I’ve never met before, no social connection except that she’s a friend of a friend. Never met her in person, but I see her on Girl A’s Snapchat stories and she’s very attractive.

Considering I’ve never met Girl B, I’m just not sure exactly how to handle the situation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If girl A is your friend, like actual friend and you aren’t just some orbiter to her she uses for likes, being it up to her next time you see her in person.

Social circle game is the easiest way to get chicks.
 
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SoSuave666 said:
If girl A is your friend, like actual friend and you aren’t just some orbiter to her she uses for likes, being it up to her next time you see her in person.

Social circle game is the easiest way to get chicks.
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I’m considering focusing more on social circle game and online dating than Cold Approach. Seems really useful.

I know RSD has some stuff, but any good resources for learning good social circle game?
 
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nicksaiz65 said:
I’m considering focusing more on social circle game and online dating than Cold Approach. Seems really useful.
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Why not use all of the tools? The former two are easier, but the latter also gets you what you want.
 
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