"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bigpapa

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Re the blackpillers - the core of this community, the real BPs are sub5 smv guys. Short, ugly , balding etc … I feel sorry for em because they are correct in that theyre pretty much fvcked. “Its over, it never began “ etc its true for them.
The best inner game won’t help them , and they know that….best they can do is money maxx and betabuxxdeluxe and be happy w that.But they reject even that.
Or escortmaxx , GeoMaxx. If they can afford.
But the majority cannot afford,
It’s pretty much over for em. Poor b@stards.
plenty of sub 5s women as well. Someone has to give them love too

Geomaxing is not really that helpful either, because the good looking women would still go with the good looking guys locally or good good look expats

never saw a guy that is a sub5 with decent women abroad

had a friend that was an incel and went to Thailand. Besides escort maxing, he managed to sleep with an ugly Thai girl

and even with escort maxing, the ugly escorts are the ones whom are cheap. The good looking ones are more or less the same price like in Europe

me personally i do not see any benefits of geomaxing, unless you aim for variety or to just go with your friends there and have fun
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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plenty of sub 5s women as well. Someone has to give them love too

Geomaxing is not really that helpful either, because the good looking women would still go with the good looking guys locally or good good look expats

never saw a guy that is a sub5 with decent women abroad

had a friend that was an incel and went to Thailand. Besides escort maxing, he managed to sleep with an ugly Thai girl

and even with escort maxing, the ugly escorts are the ones whom are cheap. The good looking ones are more or less the same price like in Europe

me personally i do not see any benefits of geomaxing, unless you aim for variety or to just go with your friends there and have fun
Re GM & EM this is also true to an extent too :up:
Lolling at your friend w the ugly thai girl .. broootal :cry:
I have my own example of this phenomenon of the ‘picky h00ker ‘. I vacationed to Bali a few years back and went out to the flash nightspot where all the hottest working girls congregate. I forgot to dress up and came straight there after the beach in a singlet. Shorts and thongs and a cap.
I approached a handful of the hot h00kers and they were blowing me out left and right , mocking me with “hahaha you look like old man ! In your shorts and flip flops ! LOLZZZ are u poor man? Haha- go away we don’t want you! Haha :rolleyes::lol::lol:“

No joke. I started pulling out my wallet and showing them - “I have a fat WALLET tho- let’s talk baby. how much u want ?” And they still didn’t want a bar of it. They gave me ludicrous prices to get rid of me. And backturned me.

The crowd were all dressed up. And the hot h00kers would only play with the hottest dressed up dudes !

brutal man.

but I did manage to get a slim hottie later that night for $120 AUD.
And a few days later I had her and her “sister” together in a 3 way for about $250

So that was nice :D
I’m pretty good w the haggling prices also ;) :p
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dis is me with an AI comic book filter on a selfie pic
I have pretty good bone structure and ratios
(The filter is making me more handsome btw and removes the wrinkles and crows feet )

But I’m on the short side at 5’10” and slim framed/small shoulders.
Got a bit of a Dad Bod these days in my 40s.

 

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Dis is me with an AI comic book filter on a selfie pic
I have pretty good bone structure and ratios
(The filter is making me more handsome btw and removes the wrinkles and crows feet )

But I’m on the short side at 5’10” and slim framed/small shoulders.
Got a bit of a Dad Bod these days in my 40s.

Why not clean shaven? It'd take ten years off you.
 

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Why not clean shaven? It'd take ten years off you.
nah, a beard makes my jaw look bigger and squarer.
Plus I have a bit of turkey neck going on now as I age. I dye my beard tho, looks alright..

“maybe he’s born with it? Maybe it’s Just For Men…” ;):p
 

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nah, a beard makes my jaw look bigger and squarer.
Plus I have a bit of turkey neck going on now as I age. I dye my beard tho, looks alright..

“maybe he’s born with it? Maybe it’s Just For Men…” ;):p
I've got the grey in the beard too, around the chin, so I clean shave (fresh Mach3 blade every time) every four days. Grey is only really slightly visible on the fourth day in the right light.

Shaving is good for exfoliating the skin too..although too often and it's red bumps.
 

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This is my example of my sexualised texting.
I’m quite happy with this spin on her hinge relationship prompt of “working on my relationship goals”:D

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If she buys into that (which some do v much) then I just escalate w worlds and try turn her on more and more .

this can work pretty well ..and turn into a big romance novel/ fvck book role play.
Occasionally some women get mad aroused :devil: and will be down to come to my place and make the fantasy happen. :cool:

kinda a speed seduction approach w lots of descriptive sensual lingo. It can take a while tho and a bit time consuming.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is my example of my sexualised texting.
I’m quite happy with this spin on her hinge relationship prompt of “working on my relationship goals”:D

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If she buys into that (which some do v much) then I just escalate w worlds and try turn her on more and more .

this can work pretty well ..and turn into a big romance novel/ fvck book role play.
Occasionally some women get mad aroused :devil: and will be down to come to my place and make the fantasy happen. :cool:

kinda a speed seduction approach w lots of descriptive sensual lingo. It can take a while tho and a bit time consuming.
Don't forget your next line - "the lotion goes in the basket"
 

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@Cheeky_James , If this is working for you, even if it's 1 out of every 10 women, then stick to it.

It's just the old shotgun theory but taken to the next level with today's app-driven dating market. We used to do this with Myspace and Bebo years back. Just remember, it can become tiresome with all the interactions that go nowhere. But if you're in a large enough city, it shouldn't matter.

These days I rely more on my social status and retired sporting status. I do have a Lagoon 410 in my App profiles and on Facebook, which gets me plenty of women wanting to look cool on a boat !!!

p.s Maybe I'm getting old but what is geomaxxing ?
 

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@Cheeky_James , If this is working for you, even if it's 1 out of every 10 women, then stick to it.

It's just the old shotgun theory but taken to the next level with today's app-driven dating market. We used to do this with Myspace and Bebo years back. Just remember, it can become tiresome with all the interactions that go nowhere. But if you're in a large enough city, it shouldn't matter.

These days I rely more on my social status and retired sporting status. I do have a Lagoon 410 in my App profiles and on Facebook, which gets me plenty of women wanting to look cool on a boat !!!

p.s Maybe I'm getting old but what is geomaxxing ?
What is the shotgun theory?
geomaxxing is moving to another country to increase your chances with women.
Nice job on the boat :up::up: that sh1t works for sure :cool:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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