"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hypergamy stuffs…

Bigpapa

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Re the blackpillers - the core of this community, the real BPs are sub5 smv guys. Short, ugly , balding etc … I feel sorry for em because they are correct in that theyre pretty much fvcked. “Its over, it never began “ etc its true for them.
The best inner game won’t help them , and they know that….best they can do is money maxx and betabuxxdeluxe and be happy w that.But they reject even that.
Or escortmaxx , GeoMaxx. If they can afford.
But the majority cannot afford,
It’s pretty much over for em. Poor b@stards.
plenty of sub 5s women as well. Someone has to give them love too

Geomaxing is not really that helpful either, because the good looking women would still go with the good looking guys locally or good good look expats

never saw a guy that is a sub5 with decent women abroad

had a friend that was an incel and went to Thailand. Besides escort maxing, he managed to sleep with an ugly Thai girl

and even with escort maxing, the ugly escorts are the ones whom are cheap. The good looking ones are more or less the same price like in Europe

me personally i do not see any benefits of geomaxing, unless you aim for variety or to just go with your friends there and have fun
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cheeky_James

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plenty of sub 5s women as well. Someone has to give them love too

Geomaxing is not really that helpful either, because the good looking women would still go with the good looking guys locally or good good look expats

never saw a guy that is a sub5 with decent women abroad

had a friend that was an incel and went to Thailand. Besides escort maxing, he managed to sleep with an ugly Thai girl

and even with escort maxing, the ugly escorts are the ones whom are cheap. The good looking ones are more or less the same price like in Europe

me personally i do not see any benefits of geomaxing, unless you aim for variety or to just go with your friends there and have fun
Re GM & EM this is also true to an extent too :up:
Lolling at your friend w the ugly thai girl .. broootal :cry:
I have my own example of this phenomenon of the ‘picky h00ker ‘. I vacationed to Bali a few years back and went out to the flash nightspot where all the hottest working girls congregate. I forgot to dress up and came straight there after the beach in a singlet. Shorts and thongs and a cap.
I approached a handful of the hot h00kers and they were blowing me out left and right , mocking me with “hahaha you look like old man ! In your shorts and flip flops ! LOLZZZ are u poor man? Haha- go away we don’t want you! Haha :rolleyes::lol::lol:“

No joke. I started pulling out my wallet and showing them - “I have a fat WALLET tho- let’s talk baby. how much u want ?” And they still didn’t want a bar of it. They gave me ludicrous prices to get rid of me. And backturned me.

The crowd were all dressed up. And the hot h00kers would only play with the hottest dressed up dudes !

brutal man.

but I did manage to get a slim hottie later that night for $120 AUD.
And a few days later I had her and her “sister” together in a 3 way for about $250

So that was nice :D
I’m pretty good w the haggling prices also ;) :p
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dis is me with an AI comic book filter on a selfie pic
I have pretty good bone structure and ratios
(The filter is making me more handsome btw and removes the wrinkles and crows feet )

But I’m on the short side at 5’10” and slim framed/small shoulders.
Got a bit of a Dad Bod these days in my 40s.

 

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Dis is me with an AI comic book filter on a selfie pic
I have pretty good bone structure and ratios
(The filter is making me more handsome btw and removes the wrinkles and crows feet )

But I’m on the short side at 5’10” and slim framed/small shoulders.
Got a bit of a Dad Bod these days in my 40s.

Why not clean shaven? It'd take ten years off you.
 

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Why not clean shaven? It'd take ten years off you.
nah, a beard makes my jaw look bigger and squarer.
Plus I have a bit of turkey neck going on now as I age. I dye my beard tho, looks alright..

“maybe he’s born with it? Maybe it’s Just For Men…” ;):p
 

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nah, a beard makes my jaw look bigger and squarer.
Plus I have a bit of turkey neck going on now as I age. I dye my beard tho, looks alright..

“maybe he’s born with it? Maybe it’s Just For Men…” ;):p
I've got the grey in the beard too, around the chin, so I clean shave (fresh Mach3 blade every time) every four days. Grey is only really slightly visible on the fourth day in the right light.

Shaving is good for exfoliating the skin too..although too often and it's red bumps.
 
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