"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Hypergamy" is a security blanket for insecure males

Spaz

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No one said otherwise. That is a rule of thumb. Yet again, you're not following me. HG can be kept at bay but hardly indefinitely. You being at the top of your game can only postpone HG in time but could hardly block it forever. Please define "continuously"! What is that? A year, three years, 10 years or forever? That was my whole point in the first place. If a man has decided that he will never settle and live as a family guy, or keep a particular woman in his life for as long as possible, then why bother consider or fighting hypergamy in the first place as he'd always be ready and willing to press the "next" button as soon as the first clouds in the sky arrive due to him probably living in abundance?!
Until such time you tire of her and then subconsciously dismissed her in the relationship.

That's how all men with heightened leadership skills loses their women, not because of hypergamy.

When a women has deep admiration/respect/love for her man, she'll fight to keep it going, she'll fight so hard that she'll appear crazed, deluded and finally spent after years of trying.

That's when she goes "hypergamy".

But its not hypergamy, its her moving on in a relationship that has basically ended.

Do you understand this now?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SoSuave666

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Hypergamy is nothing more than a mating strategy for the weaker sex. Of course it is real. The weaker sex must find and secure the highest ranking male she can acquire for protection and resources.

Men do not have hypergamy because we do not have a biological need for protection and resources, we handle that on our own. Of course we want to fvck hot women but it is not our imperative to secure the hottest women, it is our nature to spread seed.
 
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