"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hydrogenated Oils

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What are the advantages and disadvantages of eating hydrogenated foods? Should strength builders limit or increase intake of hydrogenated foods?
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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This is the first time I've ever seen the words advantages and hydrogenated in the same sentence.
 

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fully hydrogenated oils do not appear to have the same unhealthy effects as partially hydrogenated oils (about which nothing good can be said), but they're untested. if you see hydrogenated w/o the word "fully" in front of it, it's probably partially hydrogenated -> contains artificial trans fats -> avoid.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
This is the first time I've ever seen the words advantages and hydrogenated in the same sentence.

That's the thing. As the regulars to this forum know, I occassionally eat peanut butter as midday snack. I've been cutting back on that, too (as the journal show), but I had been thinking about it. A lot of the foods I rely on and have grown up eating contain ingredients that aren't necessarily healthy. I eat an occassional candy bar (fun size) or skittles pack (again usu. fun size) every now and and always in moderation. All the same I'm looking for things to cut back on. But finding healthy and palatable snacks is becoming harder now that I'm worried about what I'm eating. There are times I even feel guilty for eating a plate of homemade spaghetti so that hasn't been one of my regular meals in a long time now. I had milk and cereal a few days ago but I've not eaten ice cream of any kind for nearly 5 or 6 months.

I know where I want to be, what I want my body to look like. I keep an image of it in my mind, I just wish there were economical, healthy and palatable food choices out there.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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By the way, I'm eating mixed nuts as a snack right now. But it won't take long to finish off this can. :nervous:
 

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Being_the_Don said:
I know where I want to be, what I want my body to look like. I keep an image of it in my mind, I just wish there were economical, healthy and palatable food choices out there.
nuts, fruit, eggs, cheese, olives, veggies, for the sweet tooth: protein pudding, sf jelly or both .. how many more snacks do you want!?

none of these are expensive.
 

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and you can snack on candy/junk food too.. just be aware it's setting you back.
 

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There are times I even feel guilty for eating a plate of homemade spaghetti so that hasn't been one of my regular meals in a long time now.
People talk about pasta being bad, but I didn't see many fat people when I was in Italy and they eat almost nothing but pasta.
 

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speakeasy said:
People talk about pasta being bad, but I didn't see many fat people when I was in Italy and they eat almost nothing but pasta.
of course they don't eat just pasta.

the thing with us europeans, we exercise better portion control than americans.

and we don't have as much fast food.
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're european? Hello from norway! Where are you from?
 

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Warboss Alex said:
nuts, fruit, eggs, cheese, olives, veggies, for the sweet tooth: protein pudding, sf jelly or both .. how many more snacks do you want!?

none of these are expensive.
I'm trying to find nice tasting protein snacks mostly. By no accident the sweeter tasting foods have sugar in them (carbs) unless I use Splenda. You know, if I'm not careful I can eat several apples or oranges in one sitting. That is when I have them in the house. But then I worry that I'm eating too many carbs in a day (even if they are healthy carbs). Anyway, what you've suggested nuts, fruits, eggs I'm already eating so I'll just eat more of them. I haven't heard about protein pudding so I'll look into that.
 

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Being_the_Don said:
I'm trying to find nice tasting protein snacks mostly. By no accident the sweeter tasting foods have sugar in them (carbs) unless I use Splenda. You know, if I'm not careful I can eat several apples or oranges in one sitting. That is when I have them in the house. But then I worry that I'm eating too many carbs in a day (even if they are healthy carbs). Anyway, what you've suggested nuts, fruits, eggs I'm already eating so I'll just eat more of them. I haven't heard about protein pudding so I'll look into that.
protein pudding = protein powder + water/cream/both + raw eggs + sugarfree jelly flavouring

apples and oranges are fine as snacks IF they fit your dietary requirements.

cook up some roast beef/pork/chicken and cut it into small pieces, eat throughout the day.

some beef jerkies are good.
 

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Ima have to ask where I can get that sugar free jelly next time I'm in tesco. Is it carb free?

Quagmire
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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Quagmire911 said:
Ima have to ask where I can get that sugar free jelly next time I'm in tesco. Is it carb free?
not strictly carb free (5g per 100g) but you'd have to eat a HELL of a lot of the stuff to any significant carbs.. jelly is actually 60ish% protein.

it's by Hartley's, it's with the regular jellies/dessert stuffs.

orange sucks but raspberry and blackcurrant are awesome!
 

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Could make a tasty breakfast :D

Maybe something a little more solid would be better to start of the day though...can't imagine it having to much fibre.
 

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Quagmire911 said:
Could make a tasty breakfast :D

Maybe something a little more solid would be better to start of the day though...can't imagine it having to much fibre.
have a handful of flaxseeds
 

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It is becoming more and more justifiable the more I think about it :D
 

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By the way, I'm eating mixed nuts as a snack right now. But it won't take long to finish off this can. :nervous:
I'm in the same boat buddy. I buy huge bags of raw nuts and finish them off in a couple of days. I've switched to whole wheat pasta and try my best to stick with foods that aren't processed. The bad thing is that aside for costing a bunch more, you can't let them sit around because they'll go bad because they don't contain all those preservatives.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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