Being_the_Don
Master Don Juan
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What are the advantages and disadvantages of eating hydrogenated foods? Should strength builders limit or increase intake of hydrogenated foods?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia said:This is the first time I've ever seen the words advantages and hydrogenated in the same sentence.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
nuts, fruit, eggs, cheese, olives, veggies, for the sweet tooth: protein pudding, sf jelly or both .. how many more snacks do you want!?Being_the_Don said:I know where I want to be, what I want my body to look like. I keep an image of it in my mind, I just wish there were economical, healthy and palatable food choices out there.
People talk about pasta being bad, but I didn't see many fat people when I was in Italy and they eat almost nothing but pasta.Being_the_Don said:There are times I even feel guilty for eating a plate of homemade spaghetti so that hasn't been one of my regular meals in a long time now.
of course they don't eat just pasta.speakeasy said:People talk about pasta being bad, but I didn't see many fat people when I was in Italy and they eat almost nothing but pasta.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
originally from Cyprus (Greek side) but now in England.Frink' said:You're european? Hello from norway! Where are you from?
I'm trying to find nice tasting protein snacks mostly. By no accident the sweeter tasting foods have sugar in them (carbs) unless I use Splenda. You know, if I'm not careful I can eat several apples or oranges in one sitting. That is when I have them in the house. But then I worry that I'm eating too many carbs in a day (even if they are healthy carbs). Anyway, what you've suggested nuts, fruits, eggs I'm already eating so I'll just eat more of them. I haven't heard about protein pudding so I'll look into that.Warboss Alex said:nuts, fruit, eggs, cheese, olives, veggies, for the sweet tooth: protein pudding, sf jelly or both .. how many more snacks do you want!?
none of these are expensive.
protein pudding = protein powder + water/cream/both + raw eggs + sugarfree jelly flavouringBeing_the_Don said:I'm trying to find nice tasting protein snacks mostly. By no accident the sweeter tasting foods have sugar in them (carbs) unless I use Splenda. You know, if I'm not careful I can eat several apples or oranges in one sitting. That is when I have them in the house. But then I worry that I'm eating too many carbs in a day (even if they are healthy carbs). Anyway, what you've suggested nuts, fruits, eggs I'm already eating so I'll just eat more of them. I haven't heard about protein pudding so I'll look into that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
not strictly carb free (5g per 100g) but you'd have to eat a HELL of a lot of the stuff to any significant carbs.. jelly is actually 60ish% protein.Quagmire911 said:Ima have to ask where I can get that sugar free jelly next time I'm in tesco. Is it carb free?
have a handful of flaxseedsQuagmire911 said:Could make a tasty breakfast
Maybe something a little more solid would be better to start of the day though...can't imagine it having to much fibre.
I'm in the same boat buddy. I buy huge bags of raw nuts and finish them off in a couple of days. I've switched to whole wheat pasta and try my best to stick with foods that aren't processed. The bad thing is that aside for costing a bunch more, you can't let them sit around because they'll go bad because they don't contain all those preservatives.Being_the_Don said:By the way, I'm eating mixed nuts as a snack right now. But it won't take long to finish off this can. :nervous:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.