Being_the_Don
Master Don Juan
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What are the advantages and disadvantages of eating hydrogenated foods? Should strength builders limit or increase intake of hydrogenated foods?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia said:This is the first time I've ever seen the words advantages and hydrogenated in the same sentence.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
nuts, fruit, eggs, cheese, olives, veggies, for the sweet tooth: protein pudding, sf jelly or both .. how many more snacks do you want!?Being_the_Don said:I know where I want to be, what I want my body to look like. I keep an image of it in my mind, I just wish there were economical, healthy and palatable food choices out there.
People talk about pasta being bad, but I didn't see many fat people when I was in Italy and they eat almost nothing but pasta.Being_the_Don said:There are times I even feel guilty for eating a plate of homemade spaghetti so that hasn't been one of my regular meals in a long time now.
of course they don't eat just pasta.speakeasy said:People talk about pasta being bad, but I didn't see many fat people when I was in Italy and they eat almost nothing but pasta.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
originally from Cyprus (Greek side) but now in England.Frink' said:You're european? Hello from norway! Where are you from?
I'm trying to find nice tasting protein snacks mostly. By no accident the sweeter tasting foods have sugar in them (carbs) unless I use Splenda. You know, if I'm not careful I can eat several apples or oranges in one sitting. That is when I have them in the house. But then I worry that I'm eating too many carbs in a day (even if they are healthy carbs). Anyway, what you've suggested nuts, fruits, eggs I'm already eating so I'll just eat more of them. I haven't heard about protein pudding so I'll look into that.Warboss Alex said:nuts, fruit, eggs, cheese, olives, veggies, for the sweet tooth: protein pudding, sf jelly or both .. how many more snacks do you want!?
none of these are expensive.
protein pudding = protein powder + water/cream/both + raw eggs + sugarfree jelly flavouringBeing_the_Don said:I'm trying to find nice tasting protein snacks mostly. By no accident the sweeter tasting foods have sugar in them (carbs) unless I use Splenda. You know, if I'm not careful I can eat several apples or oranges in one sitting. That is when I have them in the house. But then I worry that I'm eating too many carbs in a day (even if they are healthy carbs). Anyway, what you've suggested nuts, fruits, eggs I'm already eating so I'll just eat more of them. I haven't heard about protein pudding so I'll look into that.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
not strictly carb free (5g per 100g) but you'd have to eat a HELL of a lot of the stuff to any significant carbs.. jelly is actually 60ish% protein.Quagmire911 said:Ima have to ask where I can get that sugar free jelly next time I'm in tesco. Is it carb free?
have a handful of flaxseedsQuagmire911 said:Could make a tasty breakfast
Maybe something a little more solid would be better to start of the day though...can't imagine it having to much fibre.
I'm in the same boat buddy. I buy huge bags of raw nuts and finish them off in a couple of days. I've switched to whole wheat pasta and try my best to stick with foods that aren't processed. The bad thing is that aside for costing a bunch more, you can't let them sit around because they'll go bad because they don't contain all those preservatives.Being_the_Don said:By the way, I'm eating mixed nuts as a snack right now. But it won't take long to finish off this can. :nervous:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.