"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HUGE girl problem!! PLEASE HELP!!

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The whole thing's a pretty long story, but the worst of it is over now, anyways, I'm stuck, and I was hoping someone here could help me out.
I'm a junior in high school, and since 7th grade there's been a girl that I couldn't get my mind of of. I even went out with her once, for quite a while in fact, and since then I've had to suffer through seeing her with other guys and whatnot. I assumed she no longer had any interest in me. Turns out I was wrong. She doid in fact like me back, and I asked her out again recently. Perfect, yes? Nope, this is where it gets weird.
I find out that she doesn't think that I care enough about her for us to be together again :confused: , and obviously that's not true or I wouldn't be here writing a chapter book about my whole little story here, not to mention having spent 4 years dreaming about her, literally!
So what do I do, I don't want to let her slip away again, and I tried everything I possibly can to try and express how I feel about her. I really am stuck in a situation that I wasn't prepared to handle...:(
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Okay, chumpy. You do not tell any woman how you feel. Ever.

If she thinks you don't care about her, that's a good thing.

You'll see why by reading the DJ Bible:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

You better start, you don't got much time.
 
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Move on. Simple as that. Theres way to many girls out there to be stressin over this one. Not worth your time. This is called one-itis, and the best way to get over it is to talk to other girls, go out with other girls, and do anything to get your mind off this one.
 
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knock that girl off her pedestal right now. Ask her out right now. If she says yes, there ya go. If she keeps playing games with you then dump her and move on. You were both with others while you were apart. If this girl expects for you to wait on her all the time, just move on. Shes a controll freak and not worth your time. There are plenty of smarter, better looking, chill girls out there. She's just one of the 3,385,657,600 females that tread this earth. Stats ftw
 
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Don't put the pu55y on a pedestal man, always end with you going crazy and 5hit
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJ_Hero said:
This & this. Don't even talk to a girl until you read these.
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I disagree! Read them slowly, and while you're reading, see how the stuff relates to your life, and try it out!

People read too much, too quickly.
 
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