"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HUGE girl problem!! PLEASE HELP!!

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The whole thing's a pretty long story, but the worst of it is over now, anyways, I'm stuck, and I was hoping someone here could help me out.
I'm a junior in high school, and since 7th grade there's been a girl that I couldn't get my mind of of. I even went out with her once, for quite a while in fact, and since then I've had to suffer through seeing her with other guys and whatnot. I assumed she no longer had any interest in me. Turns out I was wrong. She doid in fact like me back, and I asked her out again recently. Perfect, yes? Nope, this is where it gets weird.
I find out that she doesn't think that I care enough about her for us to be together again :confused: , and obviously that's not true or I wouldn't be here writing a chapter book about my whole little story here, not to mention having spent 4 years dreaming about her, literally!
So what do I do, I don't want to let her slip away again, and I tried everything I possibly can to try and express how I feel about her. I really am stuck in a situation that I wasn't prepared to handle...:(
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Okay, chumpy. You do not tell any woman how you feel. Ever.

If she thinks you don't care about her, that's a good thing.

You'll see why by reading the DJ Bible:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

You better start, you don't got much time.
 
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Move on. Simple as that. Theres way to many girls out there to be stressin over this one. Not worth your time. This is called one-itis, and the best way to get over it is to talk to other girls, go out with other girls, and do anything to get your mind off this one.
 
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knock that girl off her pedestal right now. Ask her out right now. If she says yes, there ya go. If she keeps playing games with you then dump her and move on. You were both with others while you were apart. If this girl expects for you to wait on her all the time, just move on. Shes a controll freak and not worth your time. There are plenty of smarter, better looking, chill girls out there. She's just one of the 3,385,657,600 females that tread this earth. Stats ftw
 
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Don't put the pu55y on a pedestal man, always end with you going crazy and 5hit
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ_Hero said:
This & this. Don't even talk to a girl until you read these.
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I disagree! Read them slowly, and while you're reading, see how the stuff relates to your life, and try it out!

People read too much, too quickly.
 
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