"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HUGE girl problem!! PLEASE HELP!!

tvoice1

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The whole thing's a pretty long story, but the worst of it is over now, anyways, I'm stuck, and I was hoping someone here could help me out.
I'm a junior in high school, and since 7th grade there's been a girl that I couldn't get my mind of of. I even went out with her once, for quite a while in fact, and since then I've had to suffer through seeing her with other guys and whatnot. I assumed she no longer had any interest in me. Turns out I was wrong. She doid in fact like me back, and I asked her out again recently. Perfect, yes? Nope, this is where it gets weird.
I find out that she doesn't think that I care enough about her for us to be together again :confused: , and obviously that's not true or I wouldn't be here writing a chapter book about my whole little story here, not to mention having spent 4 years dreaming about her, literally!
So what do I do, I don't want to let her slip away again, and I tried everything I possibly can to try and express how I feel about her. I really am stuck in a situation that I wasn't prepared to handle...:(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Former AFC

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Okay, chumpy. You do not tell any woman how you feel. Ever.

If she thinks you don't care about her, that's a good thing.

You'll see why by reading the DJ Bible:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

You better start, you don't got much time.
 

eaglez1177

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Move on. Simple as that. Theres way to many girls out there to be stressin over this one. Not worth your time. This is called one-itis, and the best way to get over it is to talk to other girls, go out with other girls, and do anything to get your mind off this one.
 

Pdizzzzzzle

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knock that girl off her pedestal right now. Ask her out right now. If she says yes, there ya go. If she keeps playing games with you then dump her and move on. You were both with others while you were apart. If this girl expects for you to wait on her all the time, just move on. Shes a controll freak and not worth your time. There are plenty of smarter, better looking, chill girls out there. She's just one of the 3,385,657,600 females that tread this earth. Stats ftw
 

Leeds_Lad_Dom

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Don't put the pu55y on a pedestal man, always end with you going crazy and 5hit
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Huffman

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DJ_Hero said:
This & this. Don't even talk to a girl until you read these.
I disagree! Read them slowly, and while you're reading, see how the stuff relates to your life, and try it out!

People read too much, too quickly.
 
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