"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HUGE girl problem!! PLEASE HELP!!

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The whole thing's a pretty long story, but the worst of it is over now, anyways, I'm stuck, and I was hoping someone here could help me out.
I'm a junior in high school, and since 7th grade there's been a girl that I couldn't get my mind of of. I even went out with her once, for quite a while in fact, and since then I've had to suffer through seeing her with other guys and whatnot. I assumed she no longer had any interest in me. Turns out I was wrong. She doid in fact like me back, and I asked her out again recently. Perfect, yes? Nope, this is where it gets weird.
I find out that she doesn't think that I care enough about her for us to be together again :confused: , and obviously that's not true or I wouldn't be here writing a chapter book about my whole little story here, not to mention having spent 4 years dreaming about her, literally!
So what do I do, I don't want to let her slip away again, and I tried everything I possibly can to try and express how I feel about her. I really am stuck in a situation that I wasn't prepared to handle...:(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay, chumpy. You do not tell any woman how you feel. Ever.

If she thinks you don't care about her, that's a good thing.

You'll see why by reading the DJ Bible:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

You better start, you don't got much time.
 
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Move on. Simple as that. Theres way to many girls out there to be stressin over this one. Not worth your time. This is called one-itis, and the best way to get over it is to talk to other girls, go out with other girls, and do anything to get your mind off this one.
 
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knock that girl off her pedestal right now. Ask her out right now. If she says yes, there ya go. If she keeps playing games with you then dump her and move on. You were both with others while you were apart. If this girl expects for you to wait on her all the time, just move on. Shes a controll freak and not worth your time. There are plenty of smarter, better looking, chill girls out there. She's just one of the 3,385,657,600 females that tread this earth. Stats ftw
 
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Don't put the pu55y on a pedestal man, always end with you going crazy and 5hit
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ_Hero said:
This & this. Don't even talk to a girl until you read these.
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I disagree! Read them slowly, and while you're reading, see how the stuff relates to your life, and try it out!

People read too much, too quickly.
 
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