"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I happened to come across this site and...yeah...after reading through some of the first page only...I feel bad for these men. They are the text book definition of beta and everything we strive against here.

I saw such things as (these are either direct quotes or accurate paraphrases)

"omg a girl messaged me on okcupid...then deleted her account..I'm so depressed"

"This girl at work is single now..I think I'm going to ask her out as friends first and try to move it from there..I'll give myself a month to do this!"

"I'm 30, live at home in basement, virgin etc...oh well one day"

"I don't get why girls go for jerks, guys like us are the best"

"I'm not working out..there's no assurance I'll get a girl..so it's a waste of my time"

"Dude being friends with women is one of the best ways to get to their friends, it makes the friend zone worth it"

"My entire night was spent on thinking of how i'm such a terrible person for not taking the cab ride to her house and comforting her."

I mean I could go on and on..go look at it yourself. I wish there was some way I could help them. There basically like a polar opposite community as SoSuave.

Basically a bunch of men without a clue as to attain what they want/desire venting to one another about how lonely and awful their life is.

http://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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No.Danny

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Why do you care??.....
 

JaegerPilot217

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And all a woman needs to have is a vagina and be average or decent looking, men need a whole lot more than that(More than having a penis)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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skinnyguy

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Wow, I have been there. Now I'm spinning 5 plates.

Just refer them to SOS and hope they drop their standards.
 

IBreatheSpears

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JaegerPilot217 said:
all a woman needs to have is a vagina and be average or decent looking, men need a whole lot more than that
True, but most of what women find attractive in men can be learned. Women have make-up, fashion and plastic surgery. The first two add at most one point while the latter is expensive and often subtracts points instead of adding them.
 

JaegerPilot217

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IBreatheSpears said:
True, but most of what women find attractive in men can be learned. Women have make-up, fashion and plastic surgery. The first two add at most one point while the latter is expensive and often subtracts points instead of adding them.
Ya I was just implying women have it easy when they are young, like starting at 18 and lasting throughout their 20's, when they are over 30 its a different game for them
 

skinnyguy

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JaegerPilot217 said:
Ya I was just implying women have it easy when they are young, like starting at 18 and lasting throughout their 20's, when they are over 30 its a different game for them
Women over 30 are damaged goods if they are single. My range is 20-24 year olds.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Greasy Pig

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Holy fvck that is some depressing shyt...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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