"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rival

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So I happened to come across this site and...yeah...after reading through some of the first page only...I feel bad for these men. They are the text book definition of beta and everything we strive against here.

I saw such things as (these are either direct quotes or accurate paraphrases)

"omg a girl messaged me on okcupid...then deleted her account..I'm so depressed"

"This girl at work is single now..I think I'm going to ask her out as friends first and try to move it from there..I'll give myself a month to do this!"

"I'm 30, live at home in basement, virgin etc...oh well one day"

"I don't get why girls go for jerks, guys like us are the best"

"I'm not working out..there's no assurance I'll get a girl..so it's a waste of my time"

"Dude being friends with women is one of the best ways to get to their friends, it makes the friend zone worth it"

"My entire night was spent on thinking of how i'm such a terrible person for not taking the cab ride to her house and comforting her."

I mean I could go on and on..go look at it yourself. I wish there was some way I could help them. There basically like a polar opposite community as SoSuave.

Basically a bunch of men without a clue as to attain what they want/desire venting to one another about how lonely and awful their life is.

http://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No.Danny

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Why do you care??.....
 

JaegerPilot217

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And all a woman needs to have is a vagina and be average or decent looking, men need a whole lot more than that(More than having a penis)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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skinnyguy

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Wow, I have been there. Now I'm spinning 5 plates.

Just refer them to SOS and hope they drop their standards.
 

IBreatheSpears

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JaegerPilot217 said:
all a woman needs to have is a vagina and be average or decent looking, men need a whole lot more than that
True, but most of what women find attractive in men can be learned. Women have make-up, fashion and plastic surgery. The first two add at most one point while the latter is expensive and often subtracts points instead of adding them.
 

JaegerPilot217

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IBreatheSpears said:
True, but most of what women find attractive in men can be learned. Women have make-up, fashion and plastic surgery. The first two add at most one point while the latter is expensive and often subtracts points instead of adding them.
Ya I was just implying women have it easy when they are young, like starting at 18 and lasting throughout their 20's, when they are over 30 its a different game for them
 

skinnyguy

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JaegerPilot217 said:
Ya I was just implying women have it easy when they are young, like starting at 18 and lasting throughout their 20's, when they are over 30 its a different game for them
Women over 30 are damaged goods if they are single. My range is 20-24 year olds.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Greasy Pig

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Holy fvck that is some depressing shyt...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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