"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So I happened to come across this site and...yeah...after reading through some of the first page only...I feel bad for these men. They are the text book definition of beta and everything we strive against here.

I saw such things as (these are either direct quotes or accurate paraphrases)

"omg a girl messaged me on okcupid...then deleted her account..I'm so depressed"

"This girl at work is single now..I think I'm going to ask her out as friends first and try to move it from there..I'll give myself a month to do this!"

"I'm 30, live at home in basement, virgin etc...oh well one day"

"I don't get why girls go for jerks, guys like us are the best"

"I'm not working out..there's no assurance I'll get a girl..so it's a waste of my time"

"Dude being friends with women is one of the best ways to get to their friends, it makes the friend zone worth it"

"My entire night was spent on thinking of how i'm such a terrible person for not taking the cab ride to her house and comforting her."

I mean I could go on and on..go look at it yourself. I wish there was some way I could help them. There basically like a polar opposite community as SoSuave.

Basically a bunch of men without a clue as to attain what they want/desire venting to one another about how lonely and awful their life is.

http://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No.Danny

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Why do you care??.....
 

JaegerPilot217

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And all a woman needs to have is a vagina and be average or decent looking, men need a whole lot more than that(More than having a penis)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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skinnyguy

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Wow, I have been there. Now I'm spinning 5 plates.

Just refer them to SOS and hope they drop their standards.
 

IBreatheSpears

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JaegerPilot217 said:
all a woman needs to have is a vagina and be average or decent looking, men need a whole lot more than that
True, but most of what women find attractive in men can be learned. Women have make-up, fashion and plastic surgery. The first two add at most one point while the latter is expensive and often subtracts points instead of adding them.
 

JaegerPilot217

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IBreatheSpears said:
True, but most of what women find attractive in men can be learned. Women have make-up, fashion and plastic surgery. The first two add at most one point while the latter is expensive and often subtracts points instead of adding them.
Ya I was just implying women have it easy when they are young, like starting at 18 and lasting throughout their 20's, when they are over 30 its a different game for them
 

skinnyguy

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JaegerPilot217 said:
Ya I was just implying women have it easy when they are young, like starting at 18 and lasting throughout their 20's, when they are over 30 its a different game for them
Women over 30 are damaged goods if they are single. My range is 20-24 year olds.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Holy fvck that is some depressing shyt...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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