"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So I happened to come across this site and...yeah...after reading through some of the first page only...I feel bad for these men. They are the text book definition of beta and everything we strive against here.

I saw such things as (these are either direct quotes or accurate paraphrases)

"omg a girl messaged me on okcupid...then deleted her account..I'm so depressed"

"This girl at work is single now..I think I'm going to ask her out as friends first and try to move it from there..I'll give myself a month to do this!"

"I'm 30, live at home in basement, virgin etc...oh well one day"

"I don't get why girls go for jerks, guys like us are the best"

"I'm not working out..there's no assurance I'll get a girl..so it's a waste of my time"

"Dude being friends with women is one of the best ways to get to their friends, it makes the friend zone worth it"

"My entire night was spent on thinking of how i'm such a terrible person for not taking the cab ride to her house and comforting her."

I mean I could go on and on..go look at it yourself. I wish there was some way I could help them. There basically like a polar opposite community as SoSuave.

Basically a bunch of men without a clue as to attain what they want/desire venting to one another about how lonely and awful their life is.

http://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No.Danny

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Why do you care??.....
 

JaegerPilot217

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And all a woman needs to have is a vagina and be average or decent looking, men need a whole lot more than that(More than having a penis)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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skinnyguy

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Wow, I have been there. Now I'm spinning 5 plates.

Just refer them to SOS and hope they drop their standards.
 

IBreatheSpears

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JaegerPilot217 said:
all a woman needs to have is a vagina and be average or decent looking, men need a whole lot more than that
True, but most of what women find attractive in men can be learned. Women have make-up, fashion and plastic surgery. The first two add at most one point while the latter is expensive and often subtracts points instead of adding them.
 

JaegerPilot217

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IBreatheSpears said:
True, but most of what women find attractive in men can be learned. Women have make-up, fashion and plastic surgery. The first two add at most one point while the latter is expensive and often subtracts points instead of adding them.
Ya I was just implying women have it easy when they are young, like starting at 18 and lasting throughout their 20's, when they are over 30 its a different game for them
 

skinnyguy

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JaegerPilot217 said:
Ya I was just implying women have it easy when they are young, like starting at 18 and lasting throughout their 20's, when they are over 30 its a different game for them
Women over 30 are damaged goods if they are single. My range is 20-24 year olds.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Greasy Pig

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Holy fvck that is some depressing shyt...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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