You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
no, i believe him.Originally posted by triple_ultima
I hope you realize that this situation is an absolute oxymoron and this girl obviously does not care about you, and I hope, therefore, that this post is just a joke.
not quite. don't act like you're not interested, after some time passes that will turn a girl away as much as the next thing. The key is to make your interest in her seem unimportant, but still present.Originally posted by California Love
pretend that she doesnt exist for a while. In turn this will raise her IL to a level in which she can no longer resist and she will intercede on her instincts. Don't prolong ths process though.
You should try not posting the same thing in 2 different forums.Originally posted by babemaster2000
What should I do? I know this girl is really interested (from insiders), but she really tries to avoid me in school! Any tips from you masters?
HER AVOIDING ME HAS RAISED MY IL!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Originally posted by babemaster2000
Ok, so how do I approach this shy girl? Man, this is so tough this hs chick doesn't have much exp. with flirting and guys. She is ALWAYS with her ****blocking friends with her b1tch shield up!
Thanks for the helpful responses so far !
It isn't too hard, ever walk behind her in the hall? If your school is ever crowded like mine and if she is walking in front of you one day step on the back of her shoe. She'll probably turn around and say something to her.
Or just grab your balls and go talk to her.
She obviously won't make a move towards you, the ball is in your court.
-babemaster2000
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.