"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hows the weather where your at?

eli77

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Coldest January in the last 4 years here in Florida I heard Buffalo's really getting hit hard!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Plinco

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For the east coast of Florida, if the forecast holds, it will be the coldest nights since December of 1989. I have some blankets, a heated blanket, and some incandescent Christmas lights I'll be using to protect my coconut palm in my front yard. I'll have to climb a ladder tomorrow and wrap it up.
 

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Anyone live in New York or New Jersey? I have a friend in NJ and currently it's 5 degrees fahrenheit. Supposed to go down to negative digits tonight (I heard - 4 )! He's not here to respond but @Divorced w 3 is also in Jersey.

Damn that's cold, hope everyone is bundling up and staying warm!

I'm back in San Diego for the weekend and it was 75 today and sunny

Currently it's 70.:D
 

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Illinois here, there's a foot of snow that refuses to melt. 5 tonight, 2 tomorrow night. The ice went south, which is what makes the power go out. That's what I had last year. 5 degrees is a lot worse without electricity.
 

Scaramouche

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Hi Eli,
Here in South East Australia Max Temperatures have been around 108F for days...Are we ever happy LOL.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Travel memoir21

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It is a cool sunny 60 degrees where I'm at. There was a 30 degree cold front sometime a few days ago, but we stayed warm out here. It's Saturday, don't drink and drive and don't add to the population lol
 

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It is −12 degrees Celsius, which is 10 degrees Fahrenheit.
 
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