"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hows the weather where your at?

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Coldest January in the last 4 years here in Florida I heard Buffalo's really getting hit hard!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For the east coast of Florida, if the forecast holds, it will be the coldest nights since December of 1989. I have some blankets, a heated blanket, and some incandescent Christmas lights I'll be using to protect my coconut palm in my front yard. I'll have to climb a ladder tomorrow and wrap it up.
 
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Anyone live in New York or New Jersey? I have a friend in NJ and currently it's 5 degrees fahrenheit. Supposed to go down to negative digits tonight (I heard - 4 )! He's not here to respond but @Divorced w 3 is also in Jersey.

Damn that's cold, hope everyone is bundling up and staying warm!

I'm back in San Diego for the weekend and it was 75 today and sunny

Currently it's 70.:D
 
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Illinois here, there's a foot of snow that refuses to melt. 5 tonight, 2 tomorrow night. The ice went south, which is what makes the power go out. That's what I had last year. 5 degrees is a lot worse without electricity.
 
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Hi Eli,
Here in South East Australia Max Temperatures have been around 108F for days...Are we ever happy LOL.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It is a cool sunny 60 degrees where I'm at. There was a 30 degree cold front sometime a few days ago, but we stayed warm out here. It's Saturday, don't drink and drive and don't add to the population lol
 
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It is −12 degrees Celsius, which is 10 degrees Fahrenheit.
 
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