"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hows the weather where your at?

eli77

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Coldest January in the last 4 years here in Florida I heard Buffalo's really getting hit hard!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Plinco

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For the east coast of Florida, if the forecast holds, it will be the coldest nights since December of 1989. I have some blankets, a heated blanket, and some incandescent Christmas lights I'll be using to protect my coconut palm in my front yard. I'll have to climb a ladder tomorrow and wrap it up.
 

Sega Genesis

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Anyone live in New York or New Jersey? I have a friend in NJ and currently it's 5 degrees fahrenheit. Supposed to go down to negative digits tonight (I heard - 4 )! He's not here to respond but @Divorced w 3 is also in Jersey.

Damn that's cold, hope everyone is bundling up and staying warm!

I'm back in San Diego for the weekend and it was 75 today and sunny

Currently it's 70.:D
 

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Illinois here, there's a foot of snow that refuses to melt. 5 tonight, 2 tomorrow night. The ice went south, which is what makes the power go out. That's what I had last year. 5 degrees is a lot worse without electricity.
 

Scaramouche

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Hi Eli,
Here in South East Australia Max Temperatures have been around 108F for days...Are we ever happy LOL.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Travel memoir21

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It is a cool sunny 60 degrees where I'm at. There was a 30 degree cold front sometime a few days ago, but we stayed warm out here. It's Saturday, don't drink and drive and don't add to the population lol
 

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It is −12 degrees Celsius, which is 10 degrees Fahrenheit.
 
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