How's my texting game?

[AntoniousIV]

The Girl: We've been seeing each other for a bit. 6–8 dates total, hooked up on date 3. (it's casual, not a relationship)
The Situation: It's long-distance right now, but that ends in 10 days. We hadn't texted in a couple of days before this.
What Happened: She initiated the convo by sending a screenshot of her girlfriends randomly running into my friends on Ome.tv (this is actually the second time her friends have bumped into my guys on there).



The chats are translated from my language, this isn't the original chat.
I wonder if asking her "will you love me if i stop writing with commas", is unattractive bcs im seeking her love. Even thought it's obviously a joke.
Also she's clearly a lot drier than me. And It kinda looks like I'm the one making 70% of the effort here.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Pretty terrible honestly.

 

[AntoniousIV]

Pretty terrible honestly.

anything in specific?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

anything in specific?

All of it?

 

[BPH]

This whole thing was so weird to read dude...some of you would benefit from not texting unless it's specifically to set up plans...

She's weird. You're needy. And there was no point to this conversation.

 

[AntoniousIV]

All of it?

No I meant like anything specific I could improve on?

 

[AntoniousIV]

This whole thing was so weird to read dude...some of you would benefit from not texting unless it's specifically to set up plans...

She's weird. You're needy. And there was no point to this conversation.

I've always been desensitized to things being "weird". I know rationally that parts of the conversation are weird, but I don't feel like they're weird.

I contact her every few days, or she does. And my goal is to keep things warm, and not seem like im withdrawing.
But if I'm being frank I feel a lot better on the days when I talk to her rather than the days I don't. So I am pretty needy, but I don't think I'm showing it too much. I didn't feel this way when I had my summer job as a waiter, and talked to 20+ new people a day (guests).

 

[Cheeky_James]

It would be good to know who is who , what colour text is you.
It looks ok to me, but really , any guy can release tension by just texting too much,
The sex is coming right ? So all that’s required is ‘looking forward to seeing you “
Or escalate with some new sex ideas of you wanna try/ propose to her,
which I think I see in there..(?) so yeah it’s ok.
In general, don’t text too much, it’s already a solid casual relationship established, so don’t sweat the comms,

 

[AntoniousIV]

It would be good to know who is who , what colour text is you.
It looks ok to me, but really , any guy can release tension by just texting too much,
The sex is coming right ? So all that’s required is ‘looking forward to seeing you “
Or escalate with some sex ideas , which I think I see in there so yeah it’s ok.
In general, don’t text too much, it’s already a solid casual relationship established, so don’t sweat the comms,

I'm the blue text, she's the black text.

I'll definetly try to text her less often when it stops being long distance in 10 days. Can't right now because there's no contact other than the texting right now.