"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How would you snag a hot tutor?

Mr Glass

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Ok, here's my situation guys..I am in college. It's final exams next week and schools about to end. I shouldn't even be approaching girls right now;i should be doing work..but oh well.

Anyway, I ended up chatting with this girl today who happened to be a math tutor. Her interest seemed pretty high at the time. Towards the end of the conversation she hinted that she would like to help me study, because i told her that i was having some trouble in my calculus class.

I want to get at this girl, but don't wanna come off as to desperate because it is late in the semester. Basically..just looking to line **** up for next semester.

Anyway how would you guys approach this. I got her number this morning, and was thinking about calling tonight. help me out
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MindOverMatter

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I wouldn't even look at her as a tutor, she is a girl, you're a guy, why make it more complicated then that.

Don't ask her to tutor you, that's beating around the bush and you will give her the impression that you just want a tutor. Tell her that you'd like to take her out for coffee sometime, etc.

when in doubt, K.I.S.S.
 

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You got the #. To prevent possible repercussions from the student-TA thing, you want to call her up for a date at the beginning of next semester. Get either her cell # or her e-mail too just in case she doesn't have the same home # next semester.

BGMan
 
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