"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Or dont answer her directly by saying That's great. Glad to hear you're doing well .
I know I'm not completely over her otherwise I wouldn't be wasting time with this . But this is probably the last time I will respond to her.
 
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All good posts and what I glean from all this? It depends on the situation, the history between the guy and girl. The proximity to her eg long distance will be more difficult to keep IL and also what you want to achieve.

I know guys who have had several repeat fck sessions by re hooking up with ex plates/Gfs but maintained enough distance not to get sucked in to further relationship status. And that doesn't sound like a bad thing to me.
 
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If you have everything going for you, why not just tell her you're doing well. Playing mind games will only show that you are beta.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Right. My ex fiancee just texted me out of the blue today. She Whatsapped me asking how my life was and if that was my cat in my profile picture.

I have no bad feelings towards this girl and our break up was amicable but I am not going to reply. I want nothing from her and I have no intention of starting anything up with her. There is nothing to benefit from replying to her.

I also do not care whether she thinks I have moved on and am doing great or whether she thinks I am butthurt. I just don't care.
 
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Right. My ex fiancee just texted me out of the blue today. She Whatsapped me asking how my life was and if that was my cat in my profile picture.

I have no bad feelings towards this girl and our break up was amicable but I am not going to reply. I want nothing from her and I have no intention of starting anything up with her. There is nothing to benefit from replying to her.

I also do not care whether she thinks I have moved on and am doing great or whether she thinks I am butthurt. I just don't care.
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Good post. Funny thing is, they don't come back sniffing around until you get to the point when you don't care. It's like they have a sixth sense for it. :crackup:
 
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Yes I think ignoring and continuing to ignore is the best option . I think she's trying to rub it in and gloat. If she was sincere I may have replied but this is clear attention tactics . Like a previous post said I don't want anything from her and I don't really care.
 
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Are you living your life in a cage based on her thoughts of you?

Ignore that hoe. Who gives a **** what she thinks, who cares if she thinks you're butthurt? You're just living your life and she's irrelevant, that's all that matters. It's your life and she's just a tiny little speck, of no importance. Live your life for YOU, and say FORGET THIS HOE, I'm going to keep moving forward with my life.
 
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