"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How would you rate yourself?

How do you rate yourself overall

  • 10

    Votes: 4 9.3%

  • 9

    Votes: 10 23.3%

  • 8

    Votes: 13 30.2%

  • 7

    Votes: 8 18.6%

  • 6

    Votes: 3 7.0%

  • 5

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • 3-4

    Votes: 3 7.0%

  • 1-2

    Votes: 2 4.7%
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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8. Need a six pack and more sleep. Increased confidence from the body + general wellness/positive vibes/improved wit from the sleep.

But I don't have time for those things right now.
 
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im a skinny broke-ass student

well dressed, however, i'm a 7.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm a six and I know it. But my charisma and charm usually works well for me if a woman finds me halfway attractive.
 
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Just a Shot Away

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Gayest thread ever. I'd rather hear a bunch of dudes swapping recipes and quilt patterns than talk about if they're hot or not, and if so, how hot.
 
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Nobody here rates themselves as a five or below. That's funny considering the fact that this is a site for asking people how to get chicks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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S. Pryor said:
Nobody here rates themselves as a five or below. That's funny considering the fact that this is a site for asking people how to get chicks.
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I don't get it. What's the correlation between one's looks and how good they are with women?
 
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Just a Shot Away said:
I don't get it. What's the correlation between one's looks and how good they are with women?
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None JSA, looks are completly irrelevant. That´s why, when you go to the club you see ugly skinny guys pulling chicks with ease. Tanned, muscular and good looking guys never get any....
The thing is, skinny guys are extremely confident because it´s mainstream that women go horny for them....it´s not because they are skinny that they are attracting chicks...

Back to reality...
Looks are the most reliable way to get girls, many women find the game talk stupid and silly (why do you think you see so many flakes here even when you are a challenge, playful, seductive and act manly?) , though there are also many that find it funny and attractive. But they all love good looks.

You can be considered good looking/physically attractive because: you have nice colors (skin,hair, eyes,) you have a cute face or a nice body.

For instance, guys with great eyes no matter how unsymmetrical is their face, have chicks garanteed for the rest of their life. I live in a country where most people have dark hair and eyes, every single blue eyed guy I know, even if is short or ugly, pulls chicks so easilly it´s crazy.....
 
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Ohh.. then i missrated my self...

I Gave my self a 6 on the LOOKS department, i think i am Slightly over averege, because i care about my looks, and do a loot to look the best everyday.

But overall, i think i am a 5 atually, my conversational skills SUCKS SO MUCH ... and i am not the best at socialising :)
 
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Who rates themselves like this? Usually a rating scale is about looks. It's like a woman that has a good personality but she's ugly as ****. Would she be considered at ten? I'll put it to you like this, if I considered myself a "ten" or any other high ranking number, I'd say I'm a bad mutha****a! A number wouldn't come into play with or without looks considered.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've always figured I was a 7. I've even been told I was a 7.
I figure I make good money so that bumps me up some, but I'm older so that bumps me back down. So I'm still a 7.
That seems to jibe with the quality of women I get, so that seems about right. I think value is the biggest factor when it comes to attracting women.

Petari said:
It looks like half the SOsuave is models and **** haha
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Lol.
 
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10. ****ing dumbest question ever to ask a man like myself.
 
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I asked to rate yourself overall, not by your looks. I wanted to get a sense of how egotistical guys on here are.

This is about how you feel about yourself.

Obviously someone giving themselves a 9 or above rating is being egotistical, because otherwise he would be too busy enjoying an awesome life full of love rather than be here. Everyone that rated themselves a 9 or above, and even some 8's, should pay close attention to whats really going on around you instead of paying attention to that little voice inside your head, because that little voice has taken you on the wrong path. That little voice is lying to you if its telling you that are an awesome guy, you cant be, not if you're here.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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