"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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  • 10

    Votes: 4 9.3%
  • 9

    Votes: 10 23.3%
  • 8

    Votes: 13 30.2%
  • 7

    Votes: 8 18.6%
  • 6

    Votes: 3 7.0%
  • 5

    Votes: 0 0.0%
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    Votes: 3 7.0%
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    Votes: 2 4.7%

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ice882

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8. Need a six pack and more sleep. Increased confidence from the body + general wellness/positive vibes/improved wit from the sleep.

But I don't have time for those things right now.
 

blueline

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im a skinny broke-ass student

well dressed, however, i'm a 7.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Warrior74

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I'm a six and I know it. But my charisma and charm usually works well for me if a woman finds me halfway attractive.
 

Just a Shot Away

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Gayest thread ever. I'd rather hear a bunch of dudes swapping recipes and quilt patterns than talk about if they're hot or not, and if so, how hot.
 

S. Pryor

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Nobody here rates themselves as a five or below. That's funny considering the fact that this is a site for asking people how to get chicks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just a Shot Away

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S. Pryor said:
Nobody here rates themselves as a five or below. That's funny considering the fact that this is a site for asking people how to get chicks.
I don't get it. What's the correlation between one's looks and how good they are with women?
 

JdelaSilviera

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Just a Shot Away said:
I don't get it. What's the correlation between one's looks and how good they are with women?
None JSA, looks are completly irrelevant. That´s why, when you go to the club you see ugly skinny guys pulling chicks with ease. Tanned, muscular and good looking guys never get any....
The thing is, skinny guys are extremely confident because it´s mainstream that women go horny for them....it´s not because they are skinny that they are attracting chicks...

Back to reality...
Looks are the most reliable way to get girls, many women find the game talk stupid and silly (why do you think you see so many flakes here even when you are a challenge, playful, seductive and act manly?) , though there are also many that find it funny and attractive. But they all love good looks.

You can be considered good looking/physically attractive because: you have nice colors (skin,hair, eyes,) you have a cute face or a nice body.

For instance, guys with great eyes no matter how unsymmetrical is their face, have chicks garanteed for the rest of their life. I live in a country where most people have dark hair and eyes, every single blue eyed guy I know, even if is short or ugly, pulls chicks so easilly it´s crazy.....
 

Bratt2230

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Ohh.. then i missrated my self...

I Gave my self a 6 on the LOOKS department, i think i am Slightly over averege, because i care about my looks, and do a loot to look the best everyday.

But overall, i think i am a 5 atually, my conversational skills SUCKS SO MUCH ... and i am not the best at socialising :)
 

S. Pryor

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Who rates themselves like this? Usually a rating scale is about looks. It's like a woman that has a good personality but she's ugly as ****. Would she be considered at ten? I'll put it to you like this, if I considered myself a "ten" or any other high ranking number, I'd say I'm a bad mutha****a! A number wouldn't come into play with or without looks considered.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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zekko

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I've always figured I was a 7. I've even been told I was a 7.
I figure I make good money so that bumps me up some, but I'm older so that bumps me back down. So I'm still a 7.
That seems to jibe with the quality of women I get, so that seems about right. I think value is the biggest factor when it comes to attracting women.

Petari said:
It looks like half the SOsuave is models and **** haha
Lol.
 

Fortress Maximus

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10. ****ing dumbest question ever to ask a man like myself.
 

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I asked to rate yourself overall, not by your looks. I wanted to get a sense of how egotistical guys on here are.

This is about how you feel about yourself.

Obviously someone giving themselves a 9 or above rating is being egotistical, because otherwise he would be too busy enjoying an awesome life full of love rather than be here. Everyone that rated themselves a 9 or above, and even some 8's, should pay close attention to whats really going on around you instead of paying attention to that little voice inside your head, because that little voice has taken you on the wrong path. That little voice is lying to you if its telling you that are an awesome guy, you cant be, not if you're here.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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