thinktank1985
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
how would you rate this girl
- Thread starter thinktank1985
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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Yes.
Edit: Sorry, fixed my bad grammar and capitalizations.
Edit: Sorry, fixed my bad grammar and capitalizations.
OTB
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I'd give her a solid 8 
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I'd give her an 8 even though she's using the myspace angle.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Hard to tell from that angle... but her face is somewhat man-ish in my opinion. Not digging her at all. I'd give her a 6.5-7
PIMP
PIMP
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
MisterMcGee
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id do her, but i wouldnt pursue her
blink15_107
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7-8 its hard to tell but she definitely is pretty
Charm&Style
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shes an LA 6.5-7.0
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
7... the body as someone else pointed out looks a bit flat... but the angle makes that hard to determine.
Other things I'd conclude from the picture... she's messy, from the clutter on the ground, but still good about taking care of her looks... She's probably a high maintenance chick. Also, by the colors of her room and the posters on the walls/ceiling she's still living at home so obviously not making good money and pobably a bit immature.
Other things I'd conclude from the picture... she's messy, from the clutter on the ground, but still good about taking care of her looks... She's probably a high maintenance chick. Also, by the colors of her room and the posters on the walls/ceiling she's still living at home so obviously not making good money and pobably a bit immature.
Dust 2 Dust
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Her hair looks like a giant comb over.
Bletherscythe
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:crackup:Dust 2 Dust said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.