thinktank1985
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
how would you rate this girl
- Thread starter thinktank1985
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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Yes.
Edit: Sorry, fixed my bad grammar and capitalizations.
Edit: Sorry, fixed my bad grammar and capitalizations.
OTB
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I'd give her a solid 8 
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I'd give her an 8 even though she's using the myspace angle.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Hard to tell from that angle... but her face is somewhat man-ish in my opinion. Not digging her at all. I'd give her a 6.5-7
PIMP
PIMP
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MisterMcGee
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id do her, but i wouldnt pursue her
blink15_107
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7-8 its hard to tell but she definitely is pretty
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
shes an LA 6.5-7.0
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
7... the body as someone else pointed out looks a bit flat... but the angle makes that hard to determine.
Other things I'd conclude from the picture... she's messy, from the clutter on the ground, but still good about taking care of her looks... She's probably a high maintenance chick. Also, by the colors of her room and the posters on the walls/ceiling she's still living at home so obviously not making good money and pobably a bit immature.
Other things I'd conclude from the picture... she's messy, from the clutter on the ground, but still good about taking care of her looks... She's probably a high maintenance chick. Also, by the colors of her room and the posters on the walls/ceiling she's still living at home so obviously not making good money and pobably a bit immature.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Her hair looks like a giant comb over.
Bletherscythe
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:crackup:Dust 2 Dust said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.