thinktank1985
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
how would you rate this girl
- Thread starter thinktank1985
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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Yes.
Edit: Sorry, fixed my bad grammar and capitalizations.
Edit: Sorry, fixed my bad grammar and capitalizations.
OTB
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I'd give her a solid 8 
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I'd give her an 8 even though she's using the myspace angle.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Hard to tell from that angle... but her face is somewhat man-ish in my opinion. Not digging her at all. I'd give her a 6.5-7
PIMP
PIMP
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MisterMcGee
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id do her, but i wouldnt pursue her
blink15_107
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7-8 its hard to tell but she definitely is pretty
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
shes an LA 6.5-7.0
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
7... the body as someone else pointed out looks a bit flat... but the angle makes that hard to determine.
Other things I'd conclude from the picture... she's messy, from the clutter on the ground, but still good about taking care of her looks... She's probably a high maintenance chick. Also, by the colors of her room and the posters on the walls/ceiling she's still living at home so obviously not making good money and pobably a bit immature.
Other things I'd conclude from the picture... she's messy, from the clutter on the ground, but still good about taking care of her looks... She's probably a high maintenance chick. Also, by the colors of her room and the posters on the walls/ceiling she's still living at home so obviously not making good money and pobably a bit immature.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Her hair looks like a giant comb over.
Bletherscythe
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:crackup:Dust 2 Dust said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.