ChalengeGuyFan
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How would you rate these girls?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nexus Polaris
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Two of them are pretty hot. Maybe 8s. But most of them are rather generic. It's the presentation that gives them illusion of being hotter.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
bigjohnson
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The white tee at 1:29 wins - I'm such a sucker for a pretty face
bigjohnson
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Sort of pointless though - you've got models, so they have to be judged on a different scale, and they are lit and shot to perfection, at a moment in life when they probably look the best they ever will.
ChalengeGuyFan
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Why do you have to find something wrong about it? :crazy:
Just vote on what you see in the video.
Just vote on what you see in the video.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
bigjohnson
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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Not "wrong", just sort of pointless. The world is full of beautiful women, watching a video and drooling over it won't get you anywhere.
EDIT:
I generally find the 1-10 system pointless.
Mine is 0-1 or 1-2.
0 - I wouldn't
1 - I would
2 - (optional) I'd consider an LTR
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Rollo Tomassi
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Meh, 7.5
These girls are a dime a dozen in South Beach and Little Havana.
These girls are a dime a dozen in South Beach and Little Havana.
PlaysToWin
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I'm normally pretty stingy with my HB rating but these girls I'd have no problem giving 9s to, maybe even a 9.5. But I guess this shows that everyone has their likes and dislikes. One man's 9 is another man's 7.
The song is crap though.
The song is crap though.
ChalengeGuyFan
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And posting such a poll on sosuave shows a lot about people's taste and/or persona.bigjohnson said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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the biggest question is why the hell are you watching this flaming homo?
ChalengeGuyFan
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How do you express the fact that one chick is hotter than the next one using bigjohnson's scale?
bigjohnson
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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Why does it matter? That's the point you have to understand and really internalize. In the end, either you would you won't, thinking past that is just little boys comparing toys they will never play with.