ChalengeGuyFan
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How would you rate these girls?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Nexus Polaris
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Two of them are pretty hot. Maybe 8s. But most of them are rather generic. It's the presentation that gives them illusion of being hotter.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
bigjohnson
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The white tee at 1:29 wins - I'm such a sucker for a pretty face
bigjohnson
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Sort of pointless though - you've got models, so they have to be judged on a different scale, and they are lit and shot to perfection, at a moment in life when they probably look the best they ever will.
ChalengeGuyFan
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Why do you have to find something wrong about it? :crazy:
Just vote on what you see in the video.
Just vote on what you see in the video.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
bigjohnson
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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Not "wrong", just sort of pointless. The world is full of beautiful women, watching a video and drooling over it won't get you anywhere.
EDIT:
I generally find the 1-10 system pointless.
Mine is 0-1 or 1-2.
0 - I wouldn't
1 - I would
2 - (optional) I'd consider an LTR
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Rollo Tomassi
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Meh, 7.5
These girls are a dime a dozen in South Beach and Little Havana.
These girls are a dime a dozen in South Beach and Little Havana.
PlaysToWin
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I'm normally pretty stingy with my HB rating but these girls I'd have no problem giving 9s to, maybe even a 9.5. But I guess this shows that everyone has their likes and dislikes. One man's 9 is another man's 7.
The song is crap though.
The song is crap though.
ChalengeGuyFan
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And posting such a poll on sosuave shows a lot about people's taste and/or persona.bigjohnson said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backbreaker
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the biggest question is why the hell are you watching this flaming homo?
ChalengeGuyFan
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How do you express the fact that one chick is hotter than the next one using bigjohnson's scale?
bigjohnson
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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Why does it matter? That's the point you have to understand and really internalize. In the end, either you would you won't, thinking past that is just little boys comparing toys they will never play with.