ChalengeGuyFan
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How would you rate these girls?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Nexus Polaris
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Two of them are pretty hot. Maybe 8s. But most of them are rather generic. It's the presentation that gives them illusion of being hotter.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
bigjohnson
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The white tee at 1:29 wins - I'm such a sucker for a pretty face
bigjohnson
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Sort of pointless though - you've got models, so they have to be judged on a different scale, and they are lit and shot to perfection, at a moment in life when they probably look the best they ever will.
ChalengeGuyFan
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Why do you have to find something wrong about it? :crazy:
Just vote on what you see in the video.
Just vote on what you see in the video.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Not "wrong", just sort of pointless. The world is full of beautiful women, watching a video and drooling over it won't get you anywhere.
EDIT:
I generally find the 1-10 system pointless.
Mine is 0-1 or 1-2.
0 - I wouldn't
1 - I would
2 - (optional) I'd consider an LTR
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Rollo Tomassi
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Meh, 7.5
These girls are a dime a dozen in South Beach and Little Havana.
These girls are a dime a dozen in South Beach and Little Havana.
PlaysToWin
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I'm normally pretty stingy with my HB rating but these girls I'd have no problem giving 9s to, maybe even a 9.5. But I guess this shows that everyone has their likes and dislikes. One man's 9 is another man's 7.
The song is crap though.
The song is crap though.
ChalengeGuyFan
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And posting such a poll on sosuave shows a lot about people's taste and/or persona.bigjohnson said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
backbreaker
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the biggest question is why the hell are you watching this flaming homo?
ChalengeGuyFan
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How do you express the fact that one chick is hotter than the next one using bigjohnson's scale?
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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Why does it matter? That's the point you have to understand and really internalize. In the end, either you would you won't, thinking past that is just little boys comparing toys they will never play with.