ChalengeGuyFan
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How would you rate these girls?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Two of them are pretty hot. Maybe 8s. But most of them are rather generic. It's the presentation that gives them illusion of being hotter.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
bigjohnson
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The white tee at 1:29 wins - I'm such a sucker for a pretty face
bigjohnson
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Sort of pointless though - you've got models, so they have to be judged on a different scale, and they are lit and shot to perfection, at a moment in life when they probably look the best they ever will.
ChalengeGuyFan
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Why do you have to find something wrong about it? :crazy:
Just vote on what you see in the video.
Just vote on what you see in the video.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Not "wrong", just sort of pointless. The world is full of beautiful women, watching a video and drooling over it won't get you anywhere.
EDIT:
I generally find the 1-10 system pointless.
Mine is 0-1 or 1-2.
0 - I wouldn't
1 - I would
2 - (optional) I'd consider an LTR
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Rollo Tomassi
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Meh, 7.5
These girls are a dime a dozen in South Beach and Little Havana.
These girls are a dime a dozen in South Beach and Little Havana.
PlaysToWin
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I'm normally pretty stingy with my HB rating but these girls I'd have no problem giving 9s to, maybe even a 9.5. But I guess this shows that everyone has their likes and dislikes. One man's 9 is another man's 7.
The song is crap though.
The song is crap though.
ChalengeGuyFan
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And posting such a poll on sosuave shows a lot about people's taste and/or persona.bigjohnson said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
backbreaker
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the biggest question is why the hell are you watching this flaming homo?
ChalengeGuyFan
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How do you express the fact that one chick is hotter than the next one using bigjohnson's scale?
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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Why does it matter? That's the point you have to understand and really internalize. In the end, either you would you won't, thinking past that is just little boys comparing toys they will never play with.