"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how would you kiss a girl who kisses like this.. ?

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"She was like.. opening her mouth to the max (reminding me of a shark who wants to eat some prey)"....lol i literally cracked up for a good 60 seconds when I read this, picturing her mouth wide open like a shark..lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ryannath said:
"She was like.. opening her mouth to the max (reminding me of a shark who wants to eat some prey)"....lol i literally cracked up for a good 60 seconds when I read this, picturing her mouth wide open like a shark..lol.
Well you should have put something in there, unless her teeth were really that intimidating... :eek:
 

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To answer FDA's question, without needing to touch the vibes of homosexuality, girls I've kissed who were good kissers, and tongue fiends, generally give great head.

Kissing, despite what people think or say, IS very intimate. You can bang all you want, but kissing is probably MORE intimate and emotional, esp for women, than sex or head. People in porn do the nastiest stuff, but I've seen about 1 group EVER kiss. Even when hooking up while I was drunk, kissing was the hardest thing for me, and it was an eyeopener to realize I didn't want this girl. So you learn alot from a kiss. Alot.

As far as HOW a person kisses, sometimes she just does it wrong. It's supposed to be good for BOTH of you, so I would try to bridge the gap between my pleasing ways and her's. If she were that awkward (at least to me), I'd probably NOT kiss traditionally, and try doing lip kisses or bites to bring her down a bit. If she's loves bj's fine, but acting like you're blowing my mouth or giving me mouth to mouth isn't pleasurable. The only other thing could be she was communicating she wanted to give head...to which you should let her.

Over time, kissing styles meld together, to where it seems you've never not kissed right. The worst kisses I've had were from smokers, not b/c they can't kiss well, but above all things, a pleasing smell matters MOST. Kissing style right off the bat is a bonus, but a bad smell makes that first impression IMPOSSIBLE to reverse.


A-Unit
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A-Unit said:
To answer FDA's question, without needing to touch the vibes of homosexuality, girls I've kissed who were good kissers, and tongue fiends, generally give great head.

Kissing, despite what people think or say, IS very intimate. You can bang all you want, but kissing is probably MORE intimate and emotional, esp for women, than sex or head. People in porn do the nastiest stuff, but I've seen about 1 group EVER kiss. Even when hooking up while I was drunk, kissing was the hardest thing for me, and it was an eyeopener to realize I didn't want this girl. So you learn alot from a kiss. Alot.

As far as HOW a person kisses, sometimes she just does it wrong. It's supposed to be good for BOTH of you, so I would try to bridge the gap between my pleasing ways and her's. If she were that awkward (at least to me), I'd probably NOT kiss traditionally, and try doing lip kisses or bites to bring her down a bit. If she's loves bj's fine, but acting like you're blowing my mouth or giving me mouth to mouth isn't pleasurable. The only other thing could be she was communicating she wanted to give head...to which you should let her.

Over time, kissing styles meld together, to where it seems you've never not kissed right. The worst kisses I've had were from smokers, not b/c they can't kiss well, but above all things, a pleasing smell matters MOST. Kissing style right off the bat is a bonus, but a bad smell makes that first impression IMPOSSIBLE to reverse.
Yep. :up:

I'll add something about smoking too, not only does it changes a person's scent, it changes their taste. Think of kissing someone who has bratwurst burps but worse. :nervous: Smoking permeates a person's body chemistry as much as their diet.
 

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how ironic that she kissed me like a shark, given what my nickname is on this site :)

man, just when i thought i was beginning to be a good kisser, it seems i've underestimated this issue.. and A-Unit is right, i heard a few girls saying how intimate and important kissing is, so it definitely should not be an area us guys should ignore..

and it's true that if you kiss the same chick many times, the 2 of you eventually end up finding your own unique way of kissing together, to the point where it starts to feel right.. of course it could happen that it feels right from the very beginning, in which case neither of you gets to adjust to the other (and learn any new moves)
 

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flyinshark said:
how ironic that she kissed me like a shark, given what my nickname is on this site :)

man, just when i thought i was beginning to be a good kisser, it seems i've underestimated this issue.. and A-Unit is right, i heard a few girls saying how intimate and important kissing is, so it definitely should not be an area us guys should ignore..

and it's true that if you kiss the same chick many times, the 2 of you eventually end up finding your own unique way of kissing together, to the point where it starts to feel right.. of course it could happen that it feels right from the very beginning, in which case neither of you gets to adjust to the other (and learn any new moves)
Now you've got it. :up:
 

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