"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How Would You Handle This?

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Ok, here's a weird situation for you DJers:

I was walking through the bar on Sat. night when I passed a semicircular booth full of girls. One was standing up, and she tells me "stop." I go, "Ok, what do you want."

"Dance."

"What do you mean, dance?"

"Dance for us" (steps back, putting me at center stage)

"F*ck you, you dance. Why the hell would I dance for you?"

"Fine, you're worthless. Get out of here."

Pretty interesting, eh? The funny thing is that I deal with mean/manipulative women on a regular basis, and it's not like I walk around asking for it. I really wonder, am I setting off some trigger in these women? Because the manipulation NEVER works. Maybe the packaging doesn't match the product.

Your thoughts, please.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ignore what she said and pretend she just said 'hi' to you.

then proceed to work the table as you would any other table of hot girls.
 

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"Dance."

"What do you mean, dance?"

"Dance for us" (steps back, putting me at center stage)

****ed eyebrow

"And you're going to motivate me... how?"
 

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poohead said:
ignore what she said and pretend she just said 'hi' to you.

then proceed to work the table as you would any other table of hot girls.
Oh believe me, these weren't worth it. MAJOR attitudes, and nowhere near hot enough to make up for them.
 
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