"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How Would You Handle This?

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Ok, here's a weird situation for you DJers:

I was walking through the bar on Sat. night when I passed a semicircular booth full of girls. One was standing up, and she tells me "stop." I go, "Ok, what do you want."

"Dance."

"What do you mean, dance?"

"Dance for us" (steps back, putting me at center stage)

"F*ck you, you dance. Why the hell would I dance for you?"

"Fine, you're worthless. Get out of here."

Pretty interesting, eh? The funny thing is that I deal with mean/manipulative women on a regular basis, and it's not like I walk around asking for it. I really wonder, am I setting off some trigger in these women? Because the manipulation NEVER works. Maybe the packaging doesn't match the product.

Your thoughts, please.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ignore what she said and pretend she just said 'hi' to you.

then proceed to work the table as you would any other table of hot girls.
 

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"Dance."

"What do you mean, dance?"

"Dance for us" (steps back, putting me at center stage)

****ed eyebrow

"And you're going to motivate me... how?"
 

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poohead said:
ignore what she said and pretend she just said 'hi' to you.

then proceed to work the table as you would any other table of hot girls.
Oh believe me, these weren't worth it. MAJOR attitudes, and nowhere near hot enough to make up for them.
 
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