Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How Would You Handle This?

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Ok, here's a weird situation for you DJers:

I was walking through the bar on Sat. night when I passed a semicircular booth full of girls. One was standing up, and she tells me "stop." I go, "Ok, what do you want."

"Dance."

"What do you mean, dance?"

"Dance for us" (steps back, putting me at center stage)

"F*ck you, you dance. Why the hell would I dance for you?"

"Fine, you're worthless. Get out of here."

Pretty interesting, eh? The funny thing is that I deal with mean/manipulative women on a regular basis, and it's not like I walk around asking for it. I really wonder, am I setting off some trigger in these women? Because the manipulation NEVER works. Maybe the packaging doesn't match the product.

Your thoughts, please.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ignore what she said and pretend she just said 'hi' to you.

then proceed to work the table as you would any other table of hot girls.
 

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"Dance."

"What do you mean, dance?"

"Dance for us" (steps back, putting me at center stage)

****ed eyebrow

"And you're going to motivate me... how?"
 

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poohead said:
ignore what she said and pretend she just said 'hi' to you.

then proceed to work the table as you would any other table of hot girls.
Oh believe me, these weren't worth it. MAJOR attitudes, and nowhere near hot enough to make up for them.
 
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