"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how would you handle this situtation

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your girlfriend who you really, really, really liked and were really into, breaks up with you, and is ****ing your roomate within 1 week.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gangster Of Love

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You don't handle it. You let it be. Better that her true colors came out after only one week than a few months down the road.

How do you handle what part of it? The fact that she comes around the guy's place to fvck the roomie? The fact that the guy got dumped?
 

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just a situtation i caught wind of in a friends life that i thought was pretty ****ed up and wanted to know what ya'll think.
 

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Dump the room mate and ignore the girl. Obviously it's a jealousy tactic, the girl is just playing head games. I assume the room mate would be considered a "friend" sense they live together, but what kind of person fvcks your left over garbage RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU? Doesn't sound like somebody I would want a friendship or living arrangement with.
 

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If your a wuss then beat up or talk to your roomate. If you a true pimp just get more girls.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women are amoral and opportunistic so it wouldn't surprise me one bit.

I'd shrug my shoulders and move on as well find a new roomate.

I don't keep associations with lowlives.
 
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