backbreaker
Master Don Juan
your girlfriend who you really, really, really liked and were really into, breaks up with you, and is ****ing your roomate within 1 week.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
how would you handle this situtation
- Thread starter backbreaker
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
You don't handle it. You let it be. Better that her true colors came out after only one week than a few months down the road.
How do you handle what part of it? The fact that she comes around the guy's place to fvck the roomie? The fact that the guy got dumped?
How do you handle what part of it? The fact that she comes around the guy's place to fvck the roomie? The fact that the guy got dumped?
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
just a situtation i caught wind of in a friends life that i thought was pretty ****ed up and wanted to know what ya'll think.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Dump the room mate and ignore the girl. Obviously it's a jealousy tactic, the girl is just playing head games. I assume the room mate would be considered a "friend" sense they live together, but what kind of person fvcks your left over garbage RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU? Doesn't sound like somebody I would want a friendship or living arrangement with.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DarthNihilus
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Women are amoral and opportunistic so it wouldn't surprise me one bit.
I'd shrug my shoulders and move on as well find a new roomate.
I don't keep associations with lowlives.
I'd shrug my shoulders and move on as well find a new roomate.
I don't keep associations with lowlives.